2007-02-13 05:22:48 · 34 answers · asked by greg b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes i have! i loved him very much.... still do.... miss him now and want him back... but i dont regret what i did! with someone else now... and am happy.... but not happier!
2007-02-13 05:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by premiercitytwo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I didn't give up on the relationship, just the other person in the relationship. She was not going to change her ways, and they were ways I could not live with.
My priorities(when married):
1 - My kids
2 - My ex wife
3 - My career
4 - Myself
....
Her Priorities:
1- Her and the kids tied
2- Her career
3 - Her Family and friends
4 - What she wanted
5 - My career(as it was a source of income)
....
I don't know if I would have even made her top 10. I know the job did, as it was money to spend. But my well being and hapiness was never considered.
So, I walked away from the marriage.
2007-02-13 05:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a couple of times when I was in a relationship that was going nowhere, but the man was unwilling to change the status quo. So I was forced to take action. Once I was married, once in a relationship for 4 or 5 years. After the second break-up, people kept telling me how sorry they were to hear about it, but what could I do? What could I say? Nothing was going to change.
Now I'm finished with dating and relationships and have decided not to get involved again. The whole process makes me crazy.
2007-02-17 09:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by Oh, Bama! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not yet in my lifetime, but if you are thinging about doing that then at least try and be a little considerate about the person you're walking out on. Instead of just leaving try and find a nice way to break it to them, don't just leave, especially if you guys have kids or whatever
2007-02-21 02:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by sunshineangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the gas company not only turned off the gas but took the meter off the house...oh yeah. We had four children and I was pregnant with the fifth. He was a drunk and a gambler who lost his job and was spending the money I earned on his habits and the woman he was seeing on the side.
I packed the kids and all our belongings and moved out of the city within two days. It was the best thing I ever did other than having kids.
Remember this happened 38 years ago.
2007-02-13 05:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by Blue 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
YES...and the worst part of it was making the decision that I was going to do what I did. In other words, the pain is worse when you are indesicive. Once you have made up your mind and taken the appropriate steps, it gets better everyday. Don't overthink it, just do it!
BEst of Luck!
2007-02-17 16:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by Kbear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have given up but not walked yet!
2007-02-20 22:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That describes how my first marriage ended.
My son was a year old and I was tired of calling the bars looking for my husband. We went to my parents for Thanksgiving and I told him go home without us!
We never went back and I'm happier for it!
2007-02-20 00:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by maj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have , mostly because i am my own person and most men always want to TRY to control me (in a nice way ), it does not work with me !
the last time i walked out on a man , i had very strong feelings for him , we knew one another many years , but ? ........
he was a good man , but i knew i had to leave , i wish i could say why ? but it would get personal and i prefer not to ......
no, it was not violence , drinking or abuse or lack of respect , or sexual bad behavior ,nothing bad , just could not stay with him :-(
i am glad i did , of course it hurts to leave someone you love , but sometimes ? you just have to ..........:-)
and once gone ,why turn back ? :-)
2007-02-21 00:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by HJW 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex husband is a lying, cheating, abusive jerk. he slept with about 6 women in 2 years and had 3 long term affairs behind my back. he never hit me bad enough to leave a mark(he was too smart for that) he used the cop thing to threaten me for 5 years until i finally got the guts to leave. it was the best decision ever. although, we do share 2 kids and he is trying to get full custody of the by pulling every trick he has, im gonna fight till i die on that. we split in October and he is (as of Christmas) already engaged.
2007-02-13 05:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by ♥NICOLE♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, I was married at the age of 18 and divorced three months later! Wow yeah it was wrong but we bother were way to young and dumb I look back on it now and thank god that I was smart enough that i left him he is a druggie with no job has one son with some other girl and lives with his mommy!! wow he was a real winner!!!
2007-02-13 05:36:48 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋