I only met this guy last week, he asked me out for valentines day and im really excited. His best mate says he's bought me a huge bunch of roses for valentines day! im not meant to know about this.... do i get him anything? if so what? please help!
2007-02-13 05:02:12 · 17 answers · asked by london lass 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
you have to get him something. you'll feel pretty stupid when he presents you witha buncha roses, and you have nothing in return. get him soemthing meaningful, but not too expensive, b/c you just met. Buy him something that shows your intereste, but not planning to get married yet. try: chocolates, teddy bears, a card, something thoughtful. good luck!
2007-02-13 05:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na, not on a first date, all is required is a big thank you to show you appreciate it. Most guys will enjoy the fuss made of them by their date and they wont expect anything in return. You watch, he'll enjoy all the looks from the other girls when they see you with a bunch of red roses (oh and the guys looking at him thinking 'thanks mate, you've out-done me!!). There is really no equivalent really for girls to buy guys like flowers (you could buy him some I spose but you both might look a little weird both holding flowers on your date!!) I would just act all surprised and then say "Oh thank you!". If you feel like you need to give something back in return offer to buy the first round!
Have fun and I will be showing this to my b/f so I get a big bunch of roses too!!!!
2007-02-13 05:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by bexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the relationship between you two only being a week old, I'd say you are not obligated to give anything irregardless of what he may or may not give to you. If you do feel compelled, a small inexpensive friendship valentine card would be appropriate.
2007-02-13 05:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you two aren't a couple, and you're just going on a date, I'd say no. You don't have to get him anything. Maybe a card to say Happy Valentines Day, but that's it, I think. Then just dress nice and be good company for him; that should be enough.
2007-02-13 05:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by becki5ive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , I hadn't were given some thing yet . My boyfriend did not even tell me chuffed Valentine's Day after we awoke . when I were given to artwork I textual content him "chuffed Valentine's Day Sweetie" and he textual content "same to you , I forgot that it become in the present day". I stay on the point of work so I went homestead for lunch and he stopped through to p.c.. up some thing he forgot at homestead and he did not say some thing about it . I generally would not care notwithstanding it is our first Valentine's Day at the same time . perchance he will marvel me .
2016-11-27 20:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, get him something like a cool key chain or something. If he bought roses last week then I hope they are going to be fresh when they get to you tomorrow. I want flowers :-( I don't want to have to tell my boyfriend that though, so I'm kind of in a rut too. Anyway, back to you, get him something like a card, maybe some licorice, or I don't know. Something that's really simple. If he did get you flowers, that's wonderful.
2007-02-13 05:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Girl, Empty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are anything like me, you will immediately want to get him something since you know he got you a gift!! BUT, since you aren't to know that he got you roses, and it IS your FIRST date, I wouldnt get him anything. Let him woo you on V-Day. Then if all goes well in a few weeks or so, get him a just because gift to let him know that you care...that is what I would do:) Good luck and enjoy your roses!!
2007-02-13 05:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by lizzieRN13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you don't know him yet, you may feel bad if your present is not welcome as you expect. Even if you know he is going to show up with a bunch of roses, you are not sure how the date is going to turn out. I'd suggest to wait for subsequent dates. Save your generosity and thoughtful surprises in case the relationship goes well.
2007-02-13 05:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by FELIXA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about a humurous valentine card. That way you won't be empty handed when he gives you the flowers and you won't look stupid by giving him a present if his mate is lying to you about the flowers.
2007-02-13 05:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by curiousnktown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is yes. If he you agreed to be his Valentine then you pretty much have to.
If you didn't agree then the answer would be no.
Spend less then $10 in a gift what's the big deal?
2007-02-13 05:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by christiansareawesome 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋