I am a 20year old woman, and there is this person who i have known for like ages but i am not a great flirt. Is there any tips i can have please?
2007-02-13 04:55:03 · 12 answers · asked by kkaayylleeiigghh 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, if you've known her for ages, then I assume you are friends? What kind of relationship do you have already with this person? Because if you're already friends, then a simple smile won't do it. You wanna show her you're interested, but not to over do it. Make more eye contact, give her an unexpected call, ask her out (just the two of you), a little touch in the arm while you talk, tell her that she looks nice or that she smells good, maybe give her a little present, something simple like a flower from a garden you walk by (don't but it), I don't know something simple but cute. And, last but not least...tell her that she makes you nervous...she's gonna ask you why, tell her you don't know...that she just does. Then she's gonna wonder why....but always, always be yourself.
Good luck!
2007-02-13 06:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You say u know the person for ages so u know what makes the
person happy do good things for him and try showing the person that u care about him and don't cling on him so much.
2007-02-13 05:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smiling is always the way to go. Keep eye contact with them, a lingering touch (careful not to overdo it), tell them you enjoy spending time with them. etc etc.
2007-02-13 06:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A smile is good.
I would also advise you to leave soem hints. Not like showing your niple but more gentle ones. Like telling him how alone you're feeling. Or once letting slip how good-looking he is.
2007-02-13 05:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ieshwar 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
there really is no secret to flirting. but just be yourself and if hes known u 4 ages then he won t even know you are flirting. just talk about wat you guys have most in common and go from there. good luk!
2007-02-13 09:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile to them. A smile does not mean you like someone. A smile can mean that you like someone. Use this ambivalence to your advantage. If he doesn't smile back at you...it's not worth your time.
2007-02-13 04:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by christiansareawesome 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
just smile a little bit longer
2007-02-13 05:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by denny 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Strike them on the head with a piece of wood.
2007-02-13 05:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
smile, because you can and be mean it as way of being polite.
2007-02-13 04:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by rjhamuk 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go Beaver watching
2007-02-13 04:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋