I'm really upset about valentines day , me and my boyfriend, both have school at night at college and cant spend time together, I asked him what about in the day time, but he has work, do you think it's ok to maybe spend V-day on a weekend and do you think I should give him his gift to him on V-day anyway, cause the stuff I put in his gift basket wont last long, need advice , thanks, and what can I do to get my mind off of not spending V-day with him?
2007-02-13 04:35:12 · 12 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
This year we cant skip school
2007-02-13 04:36:53 · update #1
I think giving him the gift tomorrow and making a date for the weekend is a good compromise.
--That Cheeky Lad
2007-02-13 06:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are sweating the small stuff about this one. The really important thing here is that you and him take care of each other and love each other not only on V-day but the rest of the year as well. So if because schedule problems you can's spend it together give him part of his gift and then plan to have some good time later on the weekend where you both can finish celebrating V-day. So here give him something tomorrow, then on Thursday some other gift and Friday the same ans so on until you get together with him.
2007-02-13 04:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by wanna_help_u 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes give him the basket especially if there are things in there that will spoil. There is nothing wrong with doing something special at the weekend if you have time to spend together then.
2007-02-13 04:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him the gift on the day. He will then be thinking of you all day then at the weekend make that time special for both of you.
2007-02-13 04:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ding Dong 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand your frustration, my hubby works 24 hour shifts and won't be home on Valentine' Day, but what we do is make V-Day whenever we can, sharing your love with someone doesn't have to be on a certain day. Give him his gift basket on V-Day with a little note saying that there is more to come, and surprise him with "your own" Valentine's day!
2007-02-13 04:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by Vegas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not stress yourself over it you probably do alot of that in school so calm down. Yes, you can give him his gift on Valentine's day but you can celebrate anytime please do not let Valentine's be the only day you show love so go ahead focus on school and enjoy each other this weekend it will be okay. Go over there before he goes to work.
2007-02-13 04:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by Child of God 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens all the time. It happnes for other holidays as well. Nothing says you have to celebrate any holiday exactly on its designated day if your schedule does not allow that. I would get together at the soonest possible time that its good for the both of you and celebrate then. You'll both be able to enjoy the holiday without the pressure.
2007-02-13 04:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Valentine's day is any day that you want it to be. Live by your own schedule and celebrate V-day this weekend, or next weekend, or in June, whenever you want to. Its just another day, don't let other people tell you when you have to be romantic with your boyfriend.
2007-02-13 04:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by quortnie11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, answering your question. I know it is hard not to be with the person you love. I have a suggestion for you: Cook some cookies for him and have that time for yourself and relax. The next day celebrate it together. Life is short. Time is endless. Reserve the best time for the next day and forget about the day you can't see him.
2007-02-13 05:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by Pebbles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give him his gift on the day. As for spending V day on the weekend - you're only young - EVERY day should be spent like Valantines day. Enjoy it xxxxxxxxxx
2007-02-13 04:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋