Help: My ex girlfriend called me twice about two months ago. I didn't answer either time because there is ...

Question

nothing else to talk about with her. She was dating another guy for a long time when she called. Now, she is engaged. Is that weird? Seems like she got engaged a little early if she is still calling occasionally. What if she calls again, should i answer? Girls tell me what you think about her actions.
p.s. i am pretty sure it wasn't just a "how are you" call. She calls every so often too see how i am but she also brings up old stories and tells me she misses being with my family and stuff.

Answer 1

If you aren't in love with her then don't take the call you don't need the drama in your life there is allot of women out there that are available for you with out the boyfriend in the picture ! good luck

Answer 2

She's fishing. She probably started thinking, after her engagement, that maybe breaking up with you (or the other way around) wasn't the right thing. Like she's missing what she had. So instead of being with the one she loves, she doesn't know who that is. She is thinking of old times she had with you, and the times she has with him (it brings out the meaning in loving two people at the same time) So I think she is trying to find out how you feel about it. Maybe she doesn't want to come right out and say it, but that is probably what she's doing. There was a reason you broke up. If you have moved on and don't feel the same about her, I say don't answer the phone. If you don't answer, eventually she will quit calling. Good luck!

Answer 3

Can't give you a girls perspective but altogether it sounds like a tricky situation and one in which you may end up getting burnt if you're not careful. Many women have big dreams of their wedding day so getting engaged she might have been caught up in the moment? Using your knowledge of her past actions you should have a pretty good idea if she is being genuine or rubbing your nose in it. Do you still have feelings for her? Personally, unless you're prepared to live with the consequences, I'd carry on letting the phone ring and keep moving on with your life. It's not really fair for her to call you to drag up the past only to then tell you she is engaged! Perhaps her new fella isn't all that she wants from a man? I'd keep well clear mate - situation is too icky.

Answer 4

It could be she really does miss your family and stuff. Don't bother calling her back. She may be testing the waters just in case her fiance doesn't work out. Not returning her calls is a good move.

Answer 5

You're not going to find out what she really wants until you call her. Maybe she's just wanting to invite you to the wedding, as a friend. There are way too many "maybes" involved for any of us to know what she's calling about.

Answer 6

She may miss your family. When I was still single, my girlfriend and I broke up. I didn't really miss her but I did miss the rest of her family and actually saw them a few times when she wasn't around.

Answer 7

sounds like she got engaged just to get your attention and to try to get you jealous. she wants you back but i'm not so sure thats a good idea if she can't make up her mind. it's up to you though. your the only one who knows her and knows how you feel, so do what you think is best and good luck!!

Answer 8

I don't think you should answer, like you said theres nothing left ot say and she needs to let you move on just like she apparently is trying to do....she being selfish by calling you

Answer 9

I think she is just checking to see if she can get rid of her wedding jitters by making sure she has no feelings for all the guys in her past.

Answer 10

She might miss the good old times with you and is kinda unsure about her decision to marry this other guy. But it’s really up to you if you want to talk to her. Just be clear with your intentions.