been friends for a year or maybe more. she likes me a lot. she even said herself many times,she lives in america i live in middle east. few months ago.she said that i am no longer in her bestfriend for ever club!! i took it as a joke . just yesterday she said that i never was in her bestfriend for ever club, now you understand from this that she no longer likes me right ?
but she talks me all the time 80% of the time shes the one who starts the conversations. and she did say that im one of her top 5 online friends ever ! she got me confused now
just before exmas she told me that shes coming to middle east which she was serious so i said oh yeah cool finally i get to see you. but she didnt really say anything after that. she kinda changed the subject so i said f her i dont care.
a while later she talks me again , we soo get along n everything
even now we;r friends
but the fact that she said that i am no longer in her BBF club kinda rude dont you think?
i mean she was talkin to
2007-02-13 04:21:09 · 74 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
me the same way she would talk to any person who doesnt mean anything to her, i am NOT depserate for her bestfriend club i am just shocked that she said it to me ? she could atleast joked and said yeah yeah u r ,then we laugh then we never mention it again
these days they'r sending me to some unvi in america, so i was just asking her which college is the best for bussiness/accouting/finance cause im majoring in finance and SHES MAJORING IN BUSINESS !!
she said that her college is a very good one but u should go to cali or chicago ?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
is that girl playing hard to get or something ?
heres the thing, IF she doesnt like meeting people off the net which is very understandable and thats what i thought untill our friend from AUS said she she was gonna meet him if he comes half way and she;ll come the other half . and guess what? THEY ARENT EVEN CLOSE !!!
IF shes racist which she did say some racist comment
she said dont be like black peole blaming everything on
2007-02-13 04:21:44 · update #1
blaming everything on their race!! if she dont like arabs then why she wanted to come here to middle east ?!
IF she doesnt like me and that would understand why she wouldnt meet me ? then why she keeps talking to me ?!! right ? she would ignore me in order to give me some hints but she dont
if she dont like meeting people on the net why the hell she mentioned that she was coming here unless she wanted me to talk right ?!!
i just dont get it !! what the hell is going on in her mind ?
is she playing hard to get or something ?
that would explain why she DID want to meet him cause he aint that close but its hard to say it to me cause im close and that would make her lil shy n everything
i think shes taking her games too far!!
or maybe because shes rich she thinks shes better than everybody ?
she has a great personallity n everything but that part of her is killing me. girls like her should come with some handbooks. telling everything about them
2007-02-13 04:22:06 · update #2
here are my Qs : 1) wtf is going on in her brain ?
2) is she playing hard to get or dont wanna meet at all ?
3) how i can tell her that what she said about bestfriends is kinda rude and something friends wouldnt say to each other without sound desperate !! thanks
2007-02-13 04:23:54 · update #3
you can all K I S S MY A S S if u dont like this Q
2007-02-13 04:24:57 · update #4
Hi Im sorry that your friend is making you feel this way..I think that if you try to persue this friendship then you could get hurt.I think you should concentrate on your self this best friend club I dont get this (hey Im English) but the way I see it is that your friend really shouldnt just sweep you aside and disregard you in this way..I also havent read all of your question I dont need to I can see how unfairly you are being treated and that it makes you feel down. Do not go squirming to this person live your own life and then you will feel truly satisfied.I
Your question is long but it really reflects the way that you are feeling.I hope you feel better soon.Good luck.
Also the people on here have taken the time to answer your question try not to be offended by what they put.Understand that you ask a question you will get an answer.
2007-02-13 06:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, when you are on the Internet, you really do not know who you are talking to. You shouldn't ever fully trust someone for what they say online.
Second: If you want to know all those things, you should ask her. Tell her she hurt your feelings that it really bothered you about the best friend club thing.
You sound very angry and the best way to get it out is to discuss it with her. I wouldn't use the f word with her. That is disrespectful.
We don't know her or what her brain is thinking. She may not really be meeting the guy in Australia. Some people are just all talk. She could be scared of meeting someone she doesn't know. There are so many predators online. Maybe she isn't really who she says she is. Maybe she is fine as just an online friend with you. Honestly, you should really ask her these questions. I believe in communication and honesty in every relationship. Just remember it is ok to tell her you are angry, but please refrain from using the f word or anything like that. That is somewhat disrespectful. You do not have to communicate with her anymore. Hopefully you will find more really nice true friends online. It is hard to realy get to know someone just by the internet. Best wishes to you.
2007-02-13 04:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay. Your internet friend is a little rude. So what. But maybe she's just trying to get you to back off a little. You seem a to be a little intense. Just chill out. Not everyone can be in everyone else's BBF club. If it were that way then what would be the point. Don't get all bent out of shape over this. Keep it casual. You've never even meet the girl. Jeez!
2007-02-13 04:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by genuine1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Telling people to kiss your *** will not encourage useful answers. I did read it all and you could have written it in a quarter of the text.
It could be a lack of understanding between you and this person.
More likely you treat the web as reallity and this other person treats it as fantasy world.
If you want an answer, why haven't you asked her?
Your question is too long, you need to spend less time infront of your PC and get some real human interaction.
2007-02-14 09:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lost soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably a little confused about how the keep the lines of communication open without getting too warm and fuzzy about the whole thing. If she is, in fact, in college anywhere she probably has sufficient command of the English language to realize that you THINK you know English and your verbal communication skills might not be reflected in this question, but your written English is atrocious. Please don't get your whiteys in a bunch over this. I speak three languages and wouldn't try to write a "thank you" note in any but English, and then I spell-check everything.
2007-02-13 04:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by goolsby39 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe the reason she hasn't asked to meet you is because she doesn;t think that you guys kno each other good enough yet. So maybe she has been talking to the other person longer and she thinks she knos him better. And about the racist thing I don't thik that it really sounds like she is racist. She probably didn't mean anythin by the commit. Hope this helped a little.
2007-02-13 04:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by clb <3 tjb 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh dear
do you know why they don't answer
cuz it's really long
try shorten it and ask it again
but i read the first 20 lines i think!!!
OK HERES MY ANSWER:
talk to her and tell her why is she having this behavior?
what i advise you not to become dependent on her find a trusted nice friend next to you because she has proved that she is not a TRUSTED friend
tell her all you said to us and ask her about it then you decide if you want to be with her any more or not then you can stop your relation
the main thing in friendship is that you have common feelings, believes, common things that you both like, both feel that you can trust each other, look after each other and be with each other in sad and happy situations
and feel your friends situation
if you couldn't talk to her for 3 weeks cuz she had exams or ... you shouldn't get upset
now I wish you luck in your LIFE not only in your friendships
in the way you chose to live in this world cuz you know you've got to answer In trhat world about how and why you have chosen the way you lived
the way of living in this world which has diffrenet options these years
jew,christian,muslim...
AND STOP chatting on internet with people you don't know
now you had to read all my answer!!
good luck and bye bye
2007-02-13 04:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You say "she has a great personality " but from what you've described, I don't agree. She has no intention of meeting you but you keep pressuring her to meet. Leave her alone...when she trys to chat with you, just ignore her or tell her you are busy. She apparently doesn't have much of a social life at home if she continues to fill her time chatting with you guys. You need to go to school wherever YOU want to and forget about her. There are a lot of fish in the sea!
2007-02-13 04:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
way too long! Be brief! Otherwise from what I did read, sounds like she either is a typical American girl (flightly and a major chatterbox) or she really isn't that in to you and really has a boyfriend at home. By her saying you were in her top 5 online friends leads me to believe she has a boyfriend! And what up with the best friend forever club...that is majorly cheesy!
2007-02-13 04:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by Gecko'sGirl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
OK, you lost me at the 'best friends for ever club' comment. I think you just need to grow up a bit. You stop saying things like that once you leave infant school
2007-02-13 09:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by fallenangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋