Friends that are girls?

Question

I am starting to get serious with a very nice lady, however she gets hurt if I talk about some of my friends. Because of how I was raised I have a hard time being close friends with guys. I have stopped talking with several women because I am serious about her. But I don't think its fair for me to have to stop talking with others that I have known for a long time and know every well. I am not a player, but genuinuly care out my other friends well being. I have also had at least one friend try to kill herself. The problem I have is that I am gifted with being able to help others. I have been told that I would make a good therapist and now feel as though that is my calling. I really like this lady and don't want to lose her. She is not jelous or controlling but I really get the impression that she is not happy about me talking with my friends that are women. I told her I have nothing to hide. All of her friends are guys? What is your opinion. This woman is very special to me.

Answer 1

I understand how she feels, and I don't blame her, she might be mad because your spending too much time with your girl-friends. Try doing something extra special for her this v-day. Like the old fasioned "give her 11 real flowers and one fake and put a note with it saying "I'll be yours till the last flower dies."

Answer 2

You have to make a choice:
Your woman friends or
This lady.
You know how this lady is, you know she's insecure, you know your friends annoy her and you know you don't think it's fair to ditch your friends. She doesn't sound like a good match for you. Find someone you're more compatible with.

Answer 3

Well if you're not willing to get rid of your female friends for her, and she is unhappy about you talking to them it probably won't work. Has she met these girls? Maybe if she meets them she will change her mind.

Answer 4

Your call do you want to be with an insecure woman or..... it only gets worse!!