I am switching because I found someone who is more up to date on trends and always knows what I want. My current hairdresser is not a close friend, but I have become friends with her since going to her for so long. I feel badly that I won't be going to her anymore, but I'm sure I will get a phone call or email from her soon because I haven't been there in a while. What do I tell her? Should I make an excuse? I have no problem making an excuse but I need a good one!!
2007-02-13 04:10:37 · 18 answers · asked by Flipper 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Business is business. You are paying her for a service, not for her to be your friend.
If she contacts you could tell her the truth, that you found someone who is more in tune with what you want or that you needed a change. Thank her very much. Hang up, end of story.
Or just that you found someone that is more convenient to go to - no real explanation is necessary.
She will find more customers as she sounds very personable. Next time keep things on a professional level (I've done this too!).
2007-02-13 04:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Maybe she needs some honesty in her career. Maybe she thinks she is up to date on trends, but doesn't realize she's not. If you tell her the truth, maybe she'll go back to school for some up to date lessons. Or, explain to her what kind of style you're looking for and the techniques the new salon will use. If she says she can't do that, than you have an excuse to leave. She'll understand. Her clientele probably always come and go. Good luck.
2007-02-13 12:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kristy ♪♫♪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are free to have your hair done by anyone you choose. You don't have any sort of contract with a stylist, so you are free to go to someone different anytime you want. Most stylists know that, and will be very professional about a client leaving. They know that every time they get a new client, it's because that person left another stylist. If you stylist does ask, just be honest and say that all of your hair mysteriously fell out. Just kidding.... say that you found someone a little closer to you with a different style. Good luck!
2007-02-13 12:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by CBenavides 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am the type of person who feels honestly is always best! but hey you can make an excuse!
here are a few
i really don't have the time to drive out there much any more so i am going to this place that is closer to home!
I don't have the money want to do it for free!
but here is what i would say! it's nice and would be the truth from what you typed
You know i have gotten to know you and your a cool chick.. but I found this other girl and it's time for a change but i have recommend a few people to you. and i was hoping we could go get coffee and just be friends!
your intent isn't to hurt her feelings then shee need to deal with what you said. your not being mean your being honest..
but if you must lie
other one would be
a good friend of my just moved back into town and i forgot to tell you she does hair and she is one of my good friends of the family i know it hurts you that i'm not there but i almost feel indebted with her so i have to go to her!
she is really good to so my hair will be in good hands!
so do you want to go for coffee and work on a friendship!
2007-02-13 12:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be honest, let her know that your new person seems to be more up to date and will take more risks to get what you want. I have learned through the years that once a regular stylist gets in the groove of your hair and style, its very hard for them to step out of the box. and I have acquired quite a few clients for that reason...... I have also lost a couple, and appreciate them more for being honest. The field of cosmetology is a very competitive one, and even though some states no longer require continuing ed. it is direly important that we continue taking classes just for this reason. Please just be honest, you never know it may inspire to to invest some time and money to modernize her training.
2007-02-13 12:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by artisticdesigner30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that an old family friend/cousin has moved in with you guys, and she a hairdresser from another state. Say that she does your hair every once in awhile and that she cuts it while she styles and everything and so you'll see her another time.
I swear, she can't be that hurt by this one..
2007-02-13 22:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by Penguins L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she calls or e-mails tell her that you appriciate all she has done for you in the past few years but you've moved on to another hairdresser and you wish her continued success
2007-02-13 12:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by Love always, Kortnei 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would consider trying to tell her nicely that youll be going to a nother shop to get your hair done because you visited the shop with a friend and you like it . or just tell her that she's not pleasing you the kind of hairstyles that you want then tell her that your going to try someone else for a while. but thats all i have on that one GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2007-02-13 12:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by lilshy5000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NYGirl i have been trying to get in touch with you for a while, it's true. i'm hurt and saddened by your actions. does your new hairdresser know that you seduced me and convinced me to dye my hair "down there" fire engine red? i hope she does because i'm emailing her pictures today!
2007-02-13 12:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your excuse' your letting your hair grow'. You could ignore her calls and messages or be up front and tell her you found someone else. Maybe they're cheaper or something.
2007-02-13 12:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by southerngirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋