Me and my half sister have been intimate for about 3 years now. Shes 17 now and I am 15. It was a big mistake but now its to late to turn back. We are both in love and want to quit hiding it now. What do we do?
2007-02-13 04:06:29 · 35 answers · asked by carlos f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ewww...
That is a little wrong. I'm not going to say it's bad...,
but y'all do share the same parent. Do you live in Arkansas?
2007-02-13 04:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by Gecko'sGirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Which half are you n love with? Sorry, I couldn't pass that opportunity...anyway, I think it's probably lust and hormones that you're feeling. I hope that you were safe, if you're doing what I think you mean by "intimate".
Now that you're getting older I hope you realize what has been going on. I personally don't see anything really wrong with what you did...as long as you were both okay with it. Just keep in mind that she is still considered a relative...though not by blood.
OH SNAP!! Scratch everything I just wrote, I was thinking "step sister". Half sister is a whole different thing. She is a BLOOD RELATIVE!!!! Stop doing each other right this minute and tell your parents what's been going on.
2007-02-13 04:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 15 and have been intimate since you were 12? in some states, that would be considered child abuse. you should immediately seek counseling. you don't know what you want. your hormones are working. you would be in love with any girl that would let you do what you want with her sexually. you are addicted. wrong or not, i won't say. mentally damaging? something you'll regret for the rest of your life? yes. i 17-year-old girl should be emotionally equivalent to a 20-year-old boy. tht alone will tell you this is not a balanced relationship and if the genders were reversed, your parents would kick your butts. don't confuse sexual chemistry and friendship and love as a friend for true love with an equal.
2007-02-13 04:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by lynda s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of the insulting manner in which some other answerers have phrased it, I do agree that you need to seek counsesling. This is not a relationship that can last forever, because of legal (not to mention biological) implications. Plus, the both of you are so young that it's extremely likely you both don't really know what love is - most people don't until much later. You will both find happiness with other people; it's definitely not too late to turn back.
2007-02-13 04:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by somebody 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to let this be, and keep it a secret. If you were both of age and could make it on your own, then I'd say spill the beans. But since your both minors and you are just 15, what will happen if you tell your parents? Are you both prepared to be kicked out? I suggest you end the relationship if possible.
2007-02-13 04:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been 3 years, I wouldn't worry about it being wrong now. Damage has been done. Realize if she's your half sister that you share the same blood and that makes it incest!! Come on, of all the people in the world, did it have to be someone in your own bloodline? I think it's terrible and sick! What happens if she gets pregnant?
2007-02-13 04:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are biologically related you will never be accepted by society and I strongly urge you never to have children as they have a very high risk of being deformed. You are too young to be in such a heavy situation and I suggest that the both of you start seeking some therapy ASAP. Do not tell your parents, they will never understand, but you need to get some help with this because there is a lot of heat on this type of issue and you may be in over your heads.
2007-02-13 04:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jaboopster 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uhhh, you're 15 and she's 17. Everyone falls in love around that time, but trust me, it's just puppy love. TRUST ME. Not only that, she's still your half sister! I have half sisters and brothers. I would NEVER consider having a relationship w/them b/c it's like doing something dirty w/a piece of my mom or dad and their spouse.......and in a way a little piece of me. That's just wrong.
2007-02-13 04:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by Ericka H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called incest, and it is unacceptable in most countries.
Also, you are too young to be sexually intimate.
It is going to be extremely hard, but you need to stop. You will probably need counseling to stop. Please look under the yellow pages, under Mental Health Services. It doesn't mean you are crazy, it just means you need help for an addiction that can damage your whole life.
Call and make an appointment.
2007-02-13 04:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
eww bro were r u from dont tell ur parents if i were u look 4 some 1 better wait 3 years ewww bro that girl has some of ur genes ewwwwwwww man go 2 alabama or somthin and yes ver very very wrong??
2007-02-13 04:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Gabriel D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's 17 and you're 15? what the heck? that's tabooing...no offense but that is sicks!
You should stop now while you can before anything else happens...plus both of you are still young and there's plenty of fishes out there...but good luck!
2007-02-13 04:15:39 · answer #11 · answered by daisy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋