then i come to know about her relation there.what should i do.forgive her,stay with her or destroy her as she ruined my life and breached my trust.
2007-02-13 03:57:25 · 24 answers · asked by randeep m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
then i came to know about her relation there in abroad.she made a relation after marrying me.what should i do,forgive her or destroy her as he breached my trust and took away my 6 years and many oppurtunities
2007-02-13 04:38:45 · update #1
don't lose ur heart!!!!
if she has ditched u .,DITCH HER!!!
show that u can do everything without her!!
give her a lesson......
then,
when she realises then only think of damn forgiveness!!!
my theory is GIVE AND TAKE!!!!
2007-02-20 06:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by sweet bhullar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has come to u after leaving her parents,people & even her country & u r thinking like that despite ur 6 years long courtship ?
r u mad or something.she has done lot to u & u r trying to repay like that ? hello if she had a past relation then what's wrong in it ,atleast now she is honest with u is it not enough or just swear from ur heart that u don't have a previous relationship.
i advice u to forget all this & make a new start from this valentine's day.best of luck.
2007-02-13 12:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by SHOBHIT J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Love never ruins but hatred breeds hatred .
2. know that the trust you have placed in is not an unchangeable factor.
when you trust in eternity you will not fail .. if you trust in changeable things you will fail.
waat in understand here is that you and she have not sit togather and understood each others as individuals of emotions and some discipline in life, not even about each others family back grounds...
All talk about LOVE . but it requires maturity to love too..
Thank you,
Donon
2007-02-17 23:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by dilse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and forget is easy to say but very difficult to do.Best thing is to forgive her,but if she is used to looking for different taste you can not trust her anymore.99% she will do it again.Think all options calmly and decide.I am sorry for all this you have to go through.
2007-02-13 21:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a broad minded. Forget and forgive and continue that. Do not engage your thoughts, energy and precious time in such silly things. She will repent and apologise, sometime after 1-2 decades. Be aware of laws in India:
Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities (intercourse / coitus) are not barred / prohibited and are no offence in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Even her sex partner also cannot be punished, if was unaware of her wedlock or had sex with consent or connivance of her husband. However the police cannot arrest or prosecute him. After divorce also her husband is bound to maintain or pay till she remarries, even if she is permanently / continuously enjoying sex with all other/s. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts are bound to believe that all children born during the wedlock (or within 280 days of court's divorce judgement/ decree) are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay them expenses, till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.
. All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam. In Islam, it is great sin and heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.
2007-02-13 15:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself a simple question. Do you or do you not want her in your life. Coming from abroad she could help you with the English. Germs from abroad are treatable, dont worry.
2007-02-13 12:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by novembr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To forgive is divine if he does not have a relatioship with her you can forgive and forget the whole thing.If she still loves you why you want to ruin her and ruin yourself.
2007-02-19 00:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by anand_e_j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married to her or to her past ? Forgive and forget and live in the here and now. Her past belongs to her not to you . You are responsible for your own happiness ,,,,, to make it or break it .
2007-02-19 22:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by iambettyboop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her but give her a stern warning too.
2007-02-13 12:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not easy for you,but take a moment to think can you live without her??????
if yes, then leave her b'coz there is no meaning of a relation without trust.
and if no, you can't live without her then forgive her give her chance to regain your trust.
it depends on what you r ready for!!!!!!!
2007-02-13 12:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋