Has anybody else noticed noticed all the single mom's asking if they should stay with their cheating boyfriends? Has anybody noticed all the single mom's wondering if they should ask their boyfriends of 3 years to marry them? Has anybody noticed all the women who act like victims because they're raising 1-2-3 kids on their own and the father(s) are deadbeats? Has ANYBODY NOTICED that the reason why there are so many messed up kids and messed up adults with commitment issues is because people are doing things bass-ackwards? I could have sworn that the way we were SUPPOSED to do things was meet, fall in love, get married, buy a house, and start a family. These days it seems like people meet, have sex, get pregnant, split up, and then complain in yahoo that they can't find a date!
2007-02-13 03:53:20 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's why I'm going to get a vasectomy...that way I won't be leaving any women as single moms.
2007-02-13 03:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
On some days, I wish we could neuter all human beings. We're probably one of the dumbest species on the planet in comparison to brain size.
Most people have kids to further close that distance in their relationship with one another... not realizing that all the issues and insecurities they have now with eachother will be maginified exponentially after having a child. And in a way, most people feel more obligated to the other person once that person have their child... but that just further increases the resentment being felt.
Even in marriages, couples will have babies just to hopefully solve their problems, while this is mostly subconscious thinking .... it's true! If two people already aren't happy, how does bringing a life into the world remedy that? It's the type of thinking that leads to messed up kids and emotionally/financially drained parents...
There needs to be severe laws and approvement processes implimented before people are allowed to have kids...
I say, try caring for a puppy and see how that goes for a couple of years --- if you end up breaking up or giving the puppy away then that's a good sign not to have a child.
2007-02-13 04:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it truly is what she did she switched inclusive of her twin Nocole even as Nicole got here out for some seconds she performed it off and held her lower back even as it become her abdomen hurting from Victoria's Kick. The Bella Twins are a Heel Tag team and they are going to save doing this to Win matches for sure Tazz and J.R do not khnow they switched or that Brie has a twin Sis.
2016-11-27 20:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by rensing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont understand a simple concept like ....even if people get married and do it all forward who is to say its not going to end in divorce and dead beat dads. Another this is alot of married men cheat so dont blame that on pregnant women questioning their boyfriends. Besides this int a question im reporting it.
2007-02-13 04:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Amen. I have almost given up trying to suggest to these women that many of their problems could be helped with a little moral judgment. When I do make that suggestion, it is usually greeted with several "thumbs down". It makes me sad to think of all the children who are being brought into such messes. To those who ask "what are you doing to fix it?", I am raising my children, who were born after my marriage, in a two-parent home, with a father who comes home every night. We take out kids to church, are involved in their schools and do our best to guide them through a world full of fools who's only criteria for making decisions is "What do I want?"
2007-02-13 04:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've noticed, I've noticed, couldn't be missed. After I read your question I was so busy looking for the thumbs up thing that it took me a minute to realize that I had to answer you.Now if we could only sink it into the heads of about ten billion young women!!
2007-02-13 04:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by butternut 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree but think this attack should have some more trash talking about those deadbeat dads instead of just one line. They are a big part of screwing up kids just by not being around
2007-02-13 09:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very well said I agree 100 percent. Too many people rush into things and don't stop to consider the consequences.
2007-02-13 04:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by nethnee 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Drew.... that seems to be an oft repeated pattern. It's a shame they don't teach common sense in high school, because apparently this was not taught in these people's homes growing up.
James
2007-02-13 05:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes ! Use protection. Cause people are not going to stop having sex.
2007-02-13 04:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋