My husband abandoned me and the kids but the judge has ordered that he have them half of the time. I want to see my kids daily. I am thinking of running away with them but them I will get caught and end up in jail and he will have them all of the time. I can't kill him because then a stanger will end up with my kids. This has been going on a year and I can't continue to be this sad. I go to counseling and I take meds but that is not really helping. Life just sucks. Why continue?
2007-02-13 03:31:00 · 11 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Your children is enough of a reason in itself.
Aside from that, It also sounds like you need to take some personal responsibility in the choices you are making. Counseling and meds aren't the cure-all. YOU have to make the choice to improve the quality of life and that of your children. It also sounds like you are putting yourself first, rather than that of the needs of your children. Unless their dad is abusive, what does it hurt for them to see him? Have you asked if the children even want to see him? I guess I'm just saying you need to take control of your life, mental health, and emotional well-being, and talk to your children.
2007-02-13 04:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by taima_adara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to continue for the sake of your children. You have to be there for them through thick and thin even though your life may be miserable. Killing yourself would psycologically destroy your children. It may be hard to know that your ex husband has them half of the time but it is fair. He is their father so he should see them too. Life goes on so you have to come to an agreement because as adults your children will want to know both of their parents so don't give up. Do it for them because they will one day thank you and appreciate you and your stregnth.
2007-02-13 07:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kikkaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of your kids....in time you will be fine and strong and a better person.....wiser....more capable of love.....able to impart real lessons of commitment and trust on your children...........don't leave them millions of times worse than what your husband did to you.............be the woman you are and not a victim of the negatives in this world. You will overcome and live again...........as you wrote your question you must have been a little detached ...hang on to that feeling that your question was a remote idea....it isn't you ...it is something you needed to voice to let out some of the pain.....good first step....think of your precious babies.....love you......
2007-02-13 04:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by someone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you attempt suicide, you will have a much more difficult time ever getting even shared custody with your kids.
And I agree with the other commenters--your kids should be enough of a reason.
2007-02-13 04:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by willow oak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
overlapping problems.
with your problem u want to solve it with death, and then the problem would be, who your kids see half the time. and what about your parents, sisters, brothers, and other relatives, what happens to them? their problem will and fer sure be what happened to u and why? they know that your husband left u and has the kids half the time, but u have to be strong fer all of them.
u will fer sure meet someone new.
don't do anything stupid, like choosing death.
remember: overlapping problems.
2007-02-13 04:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by hdoubleuoh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you die, you won't see your kids at all, and they will never see their mother again. I wanted to kill my self too, but then I would never see my boyfriend again, and... I just can't allow that. He's what keeps me alive.
But, if you really can't go on, it's better to end your life, then torture yourself with this.
2007-02-13 07:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are better of without them Start a life brand new. make it interesting Take charge of ur destiny. If bad things happen just be optimistic about it. My father passed away , my mother got cancer, i got a job that hardly pays the rent, my girlfriend left just as we about to get married. There's a lot of things to learn and one of it is to learn to be happy in any situation that have been thrown to us.
2007-02-13 04:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by moesart 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
STOP BEING SO FRINCKING STUPID, EXCUSE MY LANGUAGE. LISTEN... WHAT KIND OF MOTHER IS GOING TO EVEN PUT HER LIFE IN DOUGHT.. ARE YOU STUPID OR WHAT................ WHY SHOULDN'T YOU KILL YOURSELF... ONE WORD HUNNY... *********YOUR CHILDREN.....***********
i DON'T GET YOU!!!!!!!!! SERIOUSLY. YOU SAID YOU DONT WANT HIM TO KEEP THEM, AND WHAT EXACTLY DO YOU THINK IS GOING TO HAPPEN IF YOU COMMIT SUICIDE.......
THINK ABOUT THAT AND THAN MAKE THE DECISION....
AND YOU KNOW WHAT JUST FOR YOU ASKING THAT. I THINK THE KIDS WOULD BE BETTER OF WITH THEIR FATHER..
2007-02-13 04:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by JACKIE M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it won't always be like this, and the kids ned a mother, even if she(you) is all f*cked up right now!
2007-02-14 06:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by BANANA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because one good reason is your children and if u kill yourself u ra goinna go to hell
2007-02-13 09:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋