me and my boyfriend are going to Do It, and we want a baby, but where should we do it?
2007-02-13 03:30:37 · 25 answers · asked by BookWorm 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Our house currently has building works, so we are living at our parent's. We do NOT like it and want to know other opinions. Also we are 24 and 25, we both want a baby and have been engaged for 2 years.
2007-02-13 03:50:18 · update #1
Sorry about using the term 'Do It' but i am a very shy person. I will say sex if it seems a bit childish to write 'Do It'.
2007-02-13 03:51:35 · update #2
Well you should try something romantic, but not at your home, somewhere, on a 3 day vacation, mountains or sea or at the country side where you can get yourself a room or an entire pension. Prepare some candles, some volatile essences to fire up and bring a nice smell in the room... well leave your imagination to details... but about the location, it should be somewhere far from the agitation of a city... And an advice, Drink a glass of irish whiskey, not more, to bring up the sexual apetite and turn off the cellphones.
2007-02-13 03:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by gmzionic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't "do it" and more importantly don't have a baby. Sex is an important responsibility and shouldn't be something done in haste or without understanding the overall ramifications. I know that sounds boring...but it's the truth.
Ultimately, you should wait until marriage and give your children the benefit of committed parents and a solid home. Children are not toys or possessions...they are people and you want to raise decent, productive members of society. The best way to give them a good start is a 2 parent home in which both parents are aware of their responsibilities to their children and to each other.
2007-02-13 11:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Misty 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A good place to make love is , if your a romantic is at a bungalow rental right on the beach over looking the ocean for the weekend. The other way that's if your in a hurry , is a not so busy laundry room where he could set you up on the washer and proceed during the spin cycle.
2007-02-13 11:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by I'm so Bad , I'm good!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart,
i will look at this question from a mans point of view. yes, as always, the man is wanting sex, and if it is your desire to have a baby, then he is willing to help you out in this situation, always never wanting to stop. as for the baby, guess who will get to raise it, the man? no. as soon as he hears that you are pregnant, he will dump you, and off he goes to someone elses arms. sex is a delight. just to touch anothers body and have that exticity run deep through your body and the thoughts that run through your mind will be, "I HAVE HIM NOW" will be all wrong, because all you will have is a baby, someone who will be dependent upon you to feed, nurture, change, bathe and to protect. you will be the one who will be called a fool for giving yourself over to some one who really does'nt care.
by having sex before marriage will destroy your life before it even starts.
if this person really loves you then it would be he that would put on the brakes.
i will ask you to reconsider this act before it even begins.
2007-02-13 11:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by afollowerchrist 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the Hotel room on you honymoon. Have you considered the stress of having a baby might cause and what not having a commitment might do to the overall relationship?
2007-02-13 11:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a baby you should be married. and make sure you are wit a good daddy-to-be and make sure you are financially stable. it is not fair to bring a baby into the world for selfish reasons. in your house is prolly a good place to conceive and if you are both under stress the likelyhood of conceiving is very low. be stress free, hastle free, and the best time for a woman to conceive is between her 15th and 17th day of her cycle. good luck and only think of the best interest of the baby you may bring into the world.
2007-02-13 11:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by hickgirl4ever 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In the bum? On a kitchen counter? Possibly a journey in each others parents bed?
2007-02-13 11:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I hope you're ready to have sex and to have a baby first of all!
You probably aren't ready if you are asking where you should do it.
2007-02-13 11:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do it in the bathtub, it floats. You may not want that.
I recommend you do it in the pool. No one will know.
Ask him to bring 3 donuts to get things started. One in each hand and the third.......?? well.......???? .!!!!!!
2007-02-13 11:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if neither of you has a place of your own they your too young for sex. worrying over where to do it says you are minors to young for sex or babies focus on school you dont need a boyfriend
2007-02-13 11:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋