Her boyfriend dumped her on Friday...and it turns out he had been cheating on her too...She has had a bad past with boys and has been hurt very bad...She has a lot of symtoms of depression and I know her, and I think she is considering suicide...what should I do?? I am so scared, she means so much to me...help!
2007-02-13 03:21:30 · 13 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her. tell you how much she means as a friend to you and that you're scared about what she's going to do to herself. tell her there are many guys out there who would be lucky to be with her and that she shouldn't let one guy bring her down. rent some good chick flicks that have nothing to do with boys dumping girls...eat a lot of junk food....and just have a good girls day in. tell her that you're there for her if she needs a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen. if nothing works, you may need to call someone about her depression. whether it's a parent, teacher, school counselor, or suicide hotline. don't ignore any signs of suicide. that's the worst way for someone to die.
2007-02-13 03:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your friend know how much you care about her and how important she is to you. Call your other mutual friends and remind them to give her a call and do the same. Maybe even get together and throw her a "got rid of the jerk" party. Maybe even find her a few romantic movies were the girl gets dumped on forever and a half before she meets prince charming, you know, as a way of reminding her there's better guys out there.
You could also recommend that your friend seek counseling especially since this seems to be an ongoing problem. If she doesn't want to do that then maybe she could talk to her family doctor about taking some anti-depressants to help her get through this.
2007-02-13 03:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Backatchababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, go and talk to someone about her depression. Tell her that you are always there for her and tell her that you will listen to any of her problems, and you are always there for her to talk to. I have had two or three friends taken by suicide, and I would hate to see someone else go through the pain of losing a friend. Tell her to forget about boys until shes older or has found one that treats her right. Tell her not to do something bed to herself just because a boy has done this to her. I know she has been hurt, but its better to forget about the boys instead of hurting herself. I wish you the best of luck. My thoughts are with you.
2007-02-13 04:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by sprintbabe_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her as much as you can. If you think the situation is serious enough get help from a parent counselor, but it needs to be someone your friend trusts.But definitely don't leave her alone too long and let her know you genuinely care.Suicide and depression are serious things so don't give up on her no matter how long this situation lasts.
2007-02-13 03:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by KaitlynH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her in whatever way she needs, ask her what you can do, what she needs, and what she wants you to do for her. You are a good friend in that you are showing so much concern for her welfare, tell her that doing something like killing herself will not be the right thing to do, it may feel like her life is over, but it does get better a little every day. Call her up, send her emails, just let her know that whatever she needs she can call you.
2007-02-13 03:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to the local hospital and visit the Severe Burn Ward. Tell her that the people that are in that ward are in pain. She is not in pain. She will recover. Also try to visit the ER. You will find a lot of people to point out that are in situations much worse than hers and there is no need to feel sorry for herself or try to be the center of attention for sympathy.
2007-02-13 04:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.... you haven't any longer heard from her in some days? with reference to the region, i'd be worried too. perchance attempt calling her back .... or textual content fabric message her. basically permit her comprehend you're a sprint worried, and that each and each physique you p.c. is for her to call you and enable you to comprehend she's ok. she will fill you in on the info at a later date. i comprehend the sensation. a individual i comprehend left via three different circumstances and that i've got no longer heard a peep out of her in months. She grew to become into under a ton of stress that's the reason i grew to become into so worried. i've got stopped annoying. I parent, she's the two lifeless in a ditch someplace, or hates me now and it incredibly is the reason i've got no longer heard any information. She is conscious i grew to become into worried, and nonetheless no longer something. So, that's what that's. desire your chum calls you. ?
2016-10-02 01:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is the same way and she just broke up with her fiance after 3 years on Saturday! I just call her every chance I get to check up on her and go to her house to keep her company. Just be by her side and there for her when she needs you! Good luck and tell her that theres many other guys out there that have more respect for her it just takes time to find that person.
2007-02-13 03:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her it will be OK. I talk to a lot of girls in the same boat. And i am able to cheer them up most of the time. She can always chat with me. It can make a big difference if you have another guy to boost you up, when you are down. No i am not a perv.
2007-02-13 03:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her help if you thinks its that bad. don't let her be alone if you can help it. Being alone is when depression hits the worse. If you can let her stay a few days with you so that she can have a shoulder to cry on when she needs it and so she doesn't feel so alone.
2007-02-13 03:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋