is:
A) Terribly hard, not worth it
B) Terribly Hard, Worth it
C) Wonderful with lots of work
D) Wonderful with no work
E) wrong.
Why?
2007-02-13 03:15:13 · 23 answers · asked by Ms Z 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Being married is A LOT of hard work. Is it worth it? Well, it depends on your personal idea of worth and what is worthwhile. If you have children, as we do, it is worth them being raised by a father and a mother. It is worth not having to date, it is worth not having worry about STDs (at least I BETTER not have to). But, it is not worth it the times when we both get moody, when he spends our money carelessly(I'm the only one working), when he goes to bed, refusing to help care for OUR children (3 under 6 years of age). It has it's pros and cons, and requires much compromise and self sacrifice.
2007-02-13 03:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by sisterchick1274 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer F, Wonderful with a little work.
Marriage should not have to be hard work if you are with the right person. Everyone needs to do a little work to keep a relationship new and exciting, but old and not so exciting is ok too. Been married forever and we don't have to work a lot on it.
2007-02-13 03:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C- wonderful with lots of work- Because anything worth having you have to work for. Life happens and sometimes you don't see each other or spend the quality time together that you'd like too because of family, work, etc...So you work to make the time for the two of you.
2007-02-13 03:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
c. marriage is alot of work because your taking two individuals with their own personalities and likes and dislikes and beliefs and transforming that into one household. She will get mad because he leaves his dirty clothes on the floor....he will get mad because he wants to watch tv and she wants to go out...but you work at it and you start melding together untill you find a comfort zone for the two of you. Once you do that you start reinforcing each other...problems...yes...lots of them...household problems, money problems, child problems. But the thing that makes it wonderful is no matter what problems arise you know your not in it alone. You have a committed partner who will go through it with you. Thats what makes a marriage different from just a relationship.
2007-02-13 03:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say C because :
Marriage is wonderful but it still has its ups and downs and it takes hard work to maintain that in love atmosphere especially when you have a job, family, friends and etc. because theres always something to do and always someone around you. So work on it , you'll be glad you did.
2007-02-13 03:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by nikki1vt1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell you the truth it can be alot of things.. at different points of your life. and how your marriage is. and communication terms.
but for me my marriage is wonderful but with lots of work because the things we go through, the ups and downs. and making eachother happy. even when it may feel as though it cant be done. and alot of times we get to happy and something always brings us down. and we start to argue about little things.
I would never think its wrong because we love eachother. and no marriage is wonderful with no work. theres always something that gets in the way. mostly pet peeves. or secrets. but marriage in general can be. A. B. C D. and E. It depends on how everyones indivualy has developed throughout.. Their marriage.
and how they feel about it.
2007-02-13 03:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jewelz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C. It's wonderful and wouldn't trade her in no matter what. It's work because after 5 1/2 years we have to find ways to keep each others interest, and put up with each others quirks.
2007-02-13 03:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by bugs280 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say all of the above, lol. Marriage is hard work, you have to be commited and be willing to compromise and be ready for the tough spots. If you love the person you're with then marriage shouldn't make things any harder then they already are.
2007-02-13 03:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kimberly P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my marriage it is C), with lots of work by both persons but many many joys and terrfic memories made and shared.....not only is it worth it but as for myself I would not want it anyother way...my wife is My Love, My Best friend and when required Co-Conspirator (smile).
2007-02-13 03:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by ramarro smith shadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B&C both. Marriage is hard but sometimes easy, it is a job that you can never quit. You constantly have to put in your best effort to satisfy your partner. The rewards can be priceless.
2007-02-13 03:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by junecleaver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋