These are "stereotypes." Every society has its own expectation of what is supposed to be masculine or feminine. If you go against a prescribed norm, you are labeled. People who judged dancing men as gays are coming from a society that consider dancing as exclusively feminine. Look at it from the point of view of Latin Americans. Dancing is macho in these culture. Likewise, it is also very feminine for women.
2007-02-13 03:26:36
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answered by Salsa Hermano 3
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I think the people you are referring to have decided that since "masculine" is opposite of "feminine" then all the qualities have to follow directly. If feminine implies graceful and flexible then these qualities are not recommended for men. Just like looking strong is not recommended if a woman wants to appear feminine. (But those of us who dance know better just how strong the female dancers are.) This is called stereotypes, or simplification of reality that leads to inaccurate picture.
I think men should dance. It teaches them to stand upright, for starters. LOL. Nothing wrong with knowing how to move your body, either. I don't think it makes them look feminine, unless they really dance like a girl.
2007-02-13 09:56:06
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answered by Snowflake 7
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just have one answer a person wo can make one afirmation like that only can be
a)a sick person
b)a bad dancer
c) said that beause are jealous
men wo can dance can be called gays if that means happy.lol
dance is funny for everybody and call gay a men wo dnce is the most stupid non sense i ever see i bet that the parents of the person wo said that have meet in one dancing party bye bye
2007-02-13 12:15:29
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answered by sucuri 1
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Well, I am in a dance company and there are guys who are dancing but all are straigt but me. So, they don't look feminine, or what people think is not always right.
2007-02-13 03:20:11
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answered by bubi 2
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Watch "Shall We Dance" or "Dirty Dancing."
Personally, I don't care if you're the gayest man on the planet. Something about a man who knows his way around a dance floor is sexy as hell. (Wranglers and boots optional, but definitely a plus!!)
2007-02-13 07:23:29
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answered by tinkerbell24 4
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Because those people are from that town in Footloose and should therefore not be listened to. Unless, of course, you're Kevin Bacon, in which case you listen and then dance madly and with great passion and save the day.
2007-02-13 03:18:45
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answered by SnowFlats 3
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Ever seen the film Billy Elliot? One of my all time favourites, it should explain a lot of things ..
2007-02-13 03:24:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Does usher look gay to you ? dont think so he is so sexy and can dance really good
2007-02-13 06:01:39
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answered by mixraceQT 3
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i guess "real men" are busy fixing cars, building houses, etc. to learn to dance.
2007-02-13 03:21:04
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answered by Anonymous
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because they look very feminine when they dance
2007-02-13 03:17:03
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answered by Lawrence C 2
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