pathetic....need to feel better?

Question

there was this guy i really liked and we had something going on for a while until he decided to tell me that he had a gf and that he was choosing to stay with her...i know i need to get over it and feel pathetic that i cant...i also have the flu so thats not helping anything....any tips on how to make me feel better? i dont wana feel helpless and pathetic anymore...

Answer 1

we have to face our hurts, as that is what makes us stronger in life. it does hurt us to be rejected, and passed over for someone else, but it is part of life, a learning experience that will come in handy as u grow up, so life won't disappoint u so much. your not really helpless, your just telling yourself u are. our words create our emotions we are feeling, and actually its what u are telling yourself. it isn't the rejection its how u handle it. before u grow up and even after, life will give u alot of these same disappointments. good luck

Answer 2

I understand how you feel but the pain will go away. You need to just focus on "self" and know that you deserve better. After you get over the flu do something for yourself, pamper yourself, read a good book, take a class or do some volunteer work. He's not worth you being pathetic because what he did will come back on him just as worse, believe that. Don't worry about getting involved in another relationship until you are completely over this. Just know his is coming. Go and enjoy life.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Well, you need to make sure he knows how you feel. Send him an email and rip into him for leading you along and not being up front with you in the first place. Just give yourself time, and don't be hard on yourself for what happened. You didn't know he had a girl friend. I hope you feel better soon.

Answer 5

i faced the similar situation when i came to know that the guy i like likes my friend and to add to my woes is a big flirt. so to cope up from that emotion truama i decided to talk to my mom about everything and belive me they r the best advisers. i started getting out of the situation.then indulge in any other activity like music,games,chating etc.u will definetly feel better.
i understand its not that easy but u don't have any other option left.one thing more go and give yr ex a tight slap.do it.

Answer 6

nailed you pretty good so justified in feeling helpless and pathetic esp if sick...indulge yourself for a couple days, then decide to pick up your dead a** and march on.