i think i am bi-sexual because i still like and have sex with men, but then again i have been with 3 females. 2 in relationships but 1 was added in a 3-some. one i had a relationship with said i was just experimenting. the thing is i met this stud(masculine female) and she is so cute but has a girlfriend. they aren't too established because they have only been together for some months, but they stay together. the stud is 26, the girlfriend is 19, and I'm 21. i approached her(the stud) at walmart where she works overnight 10pm -6am. we talked for about 15- 20 minutes because she stopped working when i decided to talk to her. great conversation. she said she liked my dimples, they were sexy, we laughed and smiled. anyway she got my number and told me i can call her anytime at work, but i don't like calling places of employment. she said their relationship was rocky at first but now on track. this was a Thursday night we talked and she got off at 6AM. she states she was off on Friday. and i said so am i. she asked when i wanted to call and i said ASAP. i never got a call. i went to walmart with some friends on monday night. she saw me and later before leaving the store we spoke.the first time i spoke to her i had on work clothes(kind of baggy) this time i had on some tight jeans and a cute shirt(showing my curves in every aspect)i wore this because i had on work clothes(big shirt and stuff) when she saw me and i thought maybe she thought i always dressed this way and i know she like feminine females, which i am. so when we walked towards each other , she began teasing saying "sexy". i asked why she didn't call, she said she was waiting to see if she would see me again first. i said what if it had been a month, she said i wasn't worried about that. we talked a little more and i told her i was mad, but it was jokingly. she asked why, i said cause didn't call me, she said we'll work it out.(we both smile). i decided to leave and she walked to me the front of store(checkout)she was watching me and at one point i had to walk in front of her cause of the width of the isle. she was still saying how sexy i was and i said i look different without work clothes huh? she said even more sexy. i have some wide hips and while walking beside her she kind of noticed them and rub my right hip. i am also pigeon toed, which makes my walk a little cute and she noticed. i gave her the number for her to call me from work, because she said the number was at home. i never received this call either. i know its not that she is that busy at work because its kind of laid back, and she uses the phone at work, and then she gets a break. she has been on my mind constantly. i am mad now because she acknowledge me, talks to me and all as if she is interested, but don't call. i am not going to play cat and mouse. what is wrong?? is it something about studs that i don't understand?? i am confused??? tell me what i need to do to get her attention(wake up call)?? she gives me the attention in person when we talk, but after that she don't call. what can i do?? i really like her and don't want to give up. I am not trying to be her girl, i want to be friends and hopefully later when she is ready something will come of that. please help!!!!!
2007-02-13 02:45:36 · 7 answers · asked by cute_dimples2003 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
BUT REMEMBER SHE HAS NO CELL PHONE AND THE GIRLFRIEND STAYS WITH HER
2007-02-13 03:33:37 · update #1
It sounds like her relationship with the other woman takes priority. She is probably busy with her and thats why she is so laid back about you, cause someone else is in the picture. You dont have a "partner" therefore, you think of her 24/7. I would just find someone else.
Good Luck!
2007-02-13 02:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what are you saying? you want to satisfy your needs to be with this stud lesbian and you're prepared to be a friend waiting in the wings until she's domped the younger bit of fluff....
Do you think that maybe she's got your measure and is happy enough with what she's got?
2007-02-13 03:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
circulate away her by myself. Be friendly, smile at her if she looks at you, yet whilst it grew to become into me, i does not attempt and confer along with her back except she initiated the communique. i think of the actual incontrovertible fact which you requested this question potential you ought to circulate away her be - there is obviously doubt on your recommendations which you will possibly be able to correctly be perceived as creepy (and properly accomplished you for recognising that), and if there is any doubt, there is not any doubt, as they are asserting.
2016-12-17 15:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by inkeles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think she just likes the attention you give her. and when shes not with you, theres probably some other little hottie giving her attention
2007-02-13 03:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by corleone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she might be shy to call u after she said that she has a girlfriend...trying again with her is a good idea..but don't show her that u're too interested...then make ur decision up to her reaction...good luck
2007-02-13 03:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by prolecto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feminine girls are more sensitive and more cute so find one of them.
2007-02-13 03:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by my_heartlieswithin@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not into you move on stalker!
2007-02-13 02:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋