2007-02-13 02:45:34 · 25 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I mean you can call them, if you had some type feeling for them, then what's wrong with it? But don't go any further. People like to know they are loved and appreciated, doesn't matter from who.
2007-02-14 04:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Nish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about your former lover and don't want to cause problems in his/her new relationship then I'd say ... NO it is not ok. But there are some people who remain great friends after a relationship. In that case I would say that it is ok. But... if you think about it. The new lover of your past lover would know about you and should be friends in a since with you also. If that were the case then you wouldn't be asking this question. So I guess the answer is... NO. Have a great Valentine's Day!
2007-02-13 02:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have not spoken to your former lover since the break up then you have absolutely no reason to call and wish them a happy valentines day. If the two of you have established a secure friendship then sure! And if you just think you should do this because she's got a new boyfriend and you want to keep yourself in her mind, don't do it.
2007-02-13 03:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by sunnyd1913 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is best to let the past dictate your feelings. Ask yourself how and why did the relationship end? If you feel comfortable with that answer, then send an e-mail with a simple greeting, ie., "Have a Great Day!" You could send a "Thank you for being part of my life" greeting. Avoid a message that conveys love because it is detrimental to your current relationship. Hope this helps.
2007-02-13 03:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lab Rat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only okay to call up an ex and wish them a Happy Valentine's day if you were intending on asking them to share the day with you. Otherwise, she is going to know that you still have feelings for her. Thank you and good luck.
2007-02-13 02:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it isn't. Valentine's day is for people you are romantically involved with or at the very least family.
If it was this person's birthday or even Christmas, I would say yes, but Valentine's day has its own romantic significance.
2007-02-13 03:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thank you! That made my day. lol i'm at present single, and Valentine's Day is often incredibly confusing for me. yet i'm surprisingly specific the guy i like and his female chum are not any greater seeing one yet another, so.......... i'm basically gonna see what happens. happy Valentines Day to you! :)
2016-11-03 08:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand why u could be tempted to do this but i have to say that i don't think it is a good idea. In my experience it is unadvisable to try and keep that sort of relationship with ur ex. Think about how u would feel if u were with someone and their ex got in touch on v-day...
2007-02-13 02:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. I would think someone was nuts if they called me and said that. I would think they would want me back...and how would you feel if that happened with your girlfriend and her ex. I would be mad and I would make him tie off all relationships with her. It's better not to do it because the holiday is for them, let them enjoy it.
2007-02-13 02:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by *~*~*~* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that might be a little weird. It just depends if yall still have feelings for each other or how yall ended things. Good Luck!
2007-02-13 02:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by Just Waiting 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋