i switch from personality to personality when i least expect it?

Question

smetimes when i meet a person i start to act like them when i really dont want to like i met a goth and i started to think like that (shivers) and during an argumen i always see both sides like iv been there its really weird

i do have my own personality though when im not around people

i really like this but it can be hard to shake omeone off our mind when you dont want thm there

Answer 1

I think that some people tend to pick up on the personalities of others as a way of relating to them; I do this often with people. I meet someone and start to act like them because of different reasons such as finding things in common with them, or simply having respect for who they are as people. I don't think that acting like someone you meet is necessarily a bad thing all the time, if it helps you to see how that other person views life.

Answer 2

try this, go to a place where you are totally not familier with...and before you start talking to anyone...just tell yourself: "ok, now i'm gonna be simply me...when i'm asked for an opinion, i'll just say what i believe in...i don't care what these people would think of me...i have my own personality, my own identity...and there is nothing wrong with it"...

if u want to go for it...do it in a place where u'd find totally new people for u...like a party or sth..

Answer 3

Sounds to me like you are struggling to have your own identity and your identity is currently contingent upon whomever you happen to be around at the time.
Get to know yourself for who you are and what you like. Develop your own sense of self so that you won't be relying on others to tell you who you are!
Good luck! :)

Answer 4

My psychiatrist said I have a multiple personality disorder but the rest of us disagreed.