from a loving home, no violence, no sex abuse, no drugs...should the father show leniency in a custody issue or try to keep the child mother intact once the child is returned to his home and mother returns but demands divorce - regardless of the suffering of the father?
2007-02-13 02:30:11 · 6 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am not sure what you are asking. if it was a "loving home", why was there an "abduction"? if one parent wants out of the marriage, the child is better off without the parent's arguments or ill feelings about the other. i am not concerned about the "suffering" of the parents of either sex, just the child. if you are male and end up with primary custody, treat your ex-wife with a certain amount of respect for the child's benefit but do not place the child in the middle and don't use the child as a bargaining chip to try to win back your ex-wife's affections.
2007-02-13 02:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to this than meets the eye - why did mom leave in the first place, and if mom was so dangerous, how come she came back to negotiate terms of divorce? I notice no mention is made of the child's suffering, which is really the central issue here. A truly dangerous person would simply never return, which would make her a real loose cannon. Can you tell us why she left you, please, and why she wants a divorce if the home is very loving and benign?
2007-02-13 02:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by AstroMD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't learn from this and get full custody what is to stop her from taking the child back there and never return? Protect your child and get costody. Divorice her, the child needs a father and a GOOD mother. A good mother does not take love away from her child and that is what she did.
2007-02-13 02:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom's a loose cannon. The best option would be supervised visits with Mom, preferably at Dad's house while he is there. The kid needs to see his Mom, but she sounds dangerous.
2007-02-13 02:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by cackalackattack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May not have a choice judge may decide that mother is a flight risk.
2007-02-13 02:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by T C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds bad.
It's suppose to about the child NOT the mom.
But it don't work like that --
2007-02-13 02:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋