I let my best friends boyfriend sleep on my couch because she lives w/her parents so he can't stay there..well all has been goin well until last night.He came home drunk & tried to get me to have sex with him..not once but twice..He had me pinned down on my bed, I got away from him then he pinned me against the wall..I don't want him to stay here anymore, but do I tell her why or just make something up??
2007-02-13 02:26:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her, but be prepared for her to not speak to you for a while. They always shoot the messenger. I told my BF that her boyfriend was cheating on her, I had my BF's brother backing me up, because he saw the guy sucking face with another girl. Well, I told my BF and she accused me of wanting him for myself! The nerve! We didn't speak for years, and it's not the same.
2007-02-13 02:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, get this guy out of your house regardless of what else you do. If you want you could try to talk to him and give him the opportunity to tell your friend that he was drunk and messed up. Just beware that if he's not trust worthy who knows what he'd tell her.
If you're the one to tell your friend just make sure you soften the blow. Like don't tell her that he tried to have sex with you. Just tell her he was getting way to close when he was drunk and made you uncomfortable. In other words, tell her what happened, not what you think his intentions were even if they were pretty obvious. This is not for his benefit of course, it's just so your friend might not feel quite so awful.
2007-02-13 02:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by Backatchababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were her best friend like you say you are then you would tell her what he tried to do. Even though he was drunk that is still no excuse. You would feel pretty wierd around him if you didn't tell her, besides friends come before boys.
2007-02-13 02:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by vanessa k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huneyt i know it may be hard and may seem wrong but u need to sit ur friend down and tell her wats goin on, if u care for her then u dont want her to get hurt, so tell her and tell her now! that kinda guy doenst deserve a relationship! tell her calmly and be there for her but u need to tell her just straight out no lying all truth! best wishes!
2007-02-13 02:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by rckstar88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell your best freind the truth..because if she is your bestfriend you shouldnt lie about something like this or keep it from her. if her boyfriend did this to you...he must have wanted to do it to someone else too...and if he has the audacity to even do that..then he is not a good boyfriend so you should tell your bestfriend the truth and if she's smart she'll dump him!
2007-02-13 02:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would probally tell her why because if you don't you wont be able to make up a good enough reason for her and you could possibly lose her friendship and that is more important.
2007-02-13 02:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're a good friend, you should tell her. if you were in her shoes wouldn't you want to know? so do tell her!
and you go girl! who said a guy could just rape a girl easily *smirks*
2007-02-13 20:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ammala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't tell her, he's going to eventually be doing this crap again, do you want to see her hurt in that way. You could always confront the Boyfreind and tell him that if he doesn't tell her that you will.
2007-02-13 08:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her right out before he turn it around on u and make u look bad also tell him what he is doing is wrong
2007-02-13 18:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out and tell her the truth.
2007-02-13 02:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋