Another month goes by with......nothing. (sigh) Any one else in this situation?

Question

You do everything right and still no baby. Kind of disappointed. Just felt like whining about it a little. Feel free to vent.

Answer 1

I am in the same situation, I have been crying all day off and on because I am just so tired of being let down at the end of every month when aunt flo comes. Do you ever get the feeling that you might be pregnant and there's all these little signs that could indicate pregnancy and you're experiencing them and then when you finally get up the nerve to test, it's friggin negative? I hate that.

Answer 2

I got married in Sept. 2005 then hurricane Rita hit and destroyed my home, my husband and I spent 3 months seperated after our wedding so we would have a place to stay when I came back. Since the end of November 2005 I have been trying. I've had one 1 day period in april that had me at the abc clinic testing negative a week later. I was a full week late, did all the right things in August and then negative at the end. I finally go to the doctor 2 weeks ago yesterday to find out that I probably have PCOS, and I need more followup work. Every month was a dissapointment. Each month I sit and count and figure out if I'm going to have to fight to get them put into school on time (before the cutoff date). I'm sure my children will be brilliant like their parents, beautiful like we were as children and probably teased like we were. It hurts me so to see every month a failure, I honestly in my heart blamed my husband for the longest time (his test came back yesterday A-Ok) and I felt terrible about doing it but I just didn't want it to be my fault. I'm going to be put on Clomid and I just pray everyday I don't start before my appt so I can start it with my next cycle. I get online and read statistics and read testimonials by people and let myself build up this false hope that maybe I'll be one of the lucky ones who gets pregnant right away! With twins! But to no avail I doubt I will be that lucky, if so they would be christmas babies, how nice of a present would that be, even one would be nice. I watch all these people around me who don't deserve babies and don't appreciate the ones they already have and I ask God what did I do that was so wrong to be punished like this, wanting a baby so bad and not getting it. It just hurts. I appreciate the venue to vent, it's hard to find someone to talk to who doesn't just say, it just takes time, or you're just trying too hard. They don't know what it's like. God Bless to you and I hope you can get what you want, I'm sure it'll happen to me, but when?

Answer 3

I know how you feel. I have been married for almost 2 years. I have 3 boys and he has no children. I had tubal reversal in July 06 and have been trying ever since. I found out that my little brother in WV was having twins and I got so mad becauce it was not me. Then we found out the twins were conjoined. They had to take them Thursday and they died. Now I regret every feeling that I had. I talked to my pastor about it and he said that I need to forgive myself and that I didn't want this to happen. He also said that what is going to be with me getting pregnant will be. You know I have felt so much better. I am calm and I know that it will happen when it is suppose to. Just try to be patient, find out if there is anything wrong and pray. Good luck.

Answer 4

venting is nice. im in the same boat. TTC with PCOS for a year now. I have many early symptoms of preg. right now and have taken 3 POAS tests....all NEG!!! Went to the Dr's yesterday for a blood test because i still wasn't convinced. I'm waiting for a call back with the results...I've been disappointed every time and I'm so afraid they're going to tell me its neg :(

Answer 5

Thanks for the opportunity to vent a bit. ARRRRRGGGGGG!!!!! I know exactly what you mean!!! It's like cautiously getting excited every month, every twitch, and constantly asking myself things like "what if it's only my left breast that is sore?".
Thinking of the date i'm expecting to NOT expect my peroid is like waiting for a holiday. The closer it gets the more I think about it and then it gets here and so does aunt flo.
Why is it all these little teenagers get pregnant when they don't even know what day they ovulate on. Here we are trying, charting, and waiting on a miracle, and all these teens want is to make it all go away.

Answer 6

Honey don't torture yourself, we've been trying close to 2 years now, nothing seems to be wrong with us and yet we're still not pregnant. All around me everybody seems to be pregnant the second they only think about it and I've cried rivers of tears,but nothing helped,so now I'm just waiting for it to happen, kind of hating mother nature and hoping that one day it will happen,because all my friends in between are expecting their second ones :'(

Answer 7

I'm in the same boat....I thought this month was it for sure and ended up getting my period a day early!! Talk about disappointing (big sigh) ...I guess all we can do is to keep trying! Good Luck to you~

Answer 8

yeah my friend went through that until she went to the doctors and found out that she had to have medicine to help her i forget the term for it well it must be what that girl said up top fertilization something like that. but she went through that and after a little while she got pregnant. The meds had worked. he is 4 or 5.

HANG IN THERE

Answer 9

My boyfriend made out with a chum of mine one nighttime even as they were both very lower than the impact of alcohol about 3 months into our relationship. My chum and he met up with me to inform me what occurred. because, like you, I loved him at that factor, I forgave him. notwithstanding, it is now very virtually 7 months into the relationship and that i nonetheless locate it very puzzling to trust him. i concept i'd be able to trust him lower back and that i do attempt to yet for me, some thing in the lower back of my ideas continually doubts him - it truly is so not uncomplicated, or perhaps no longer a danger to have a relationship with out trust. If distance is all it takes for him to be unfaithful, you would opt for to contemplate breaking apart with him. Do you imagine he's able to doing this lower back? With time, do you've faith you could regain your trust in him? Oh - and yet another question is, does he love you lower back? if so, question WHY he cheated - verify with him and ask your self if he's fairly sorry and regrets what he did (why did he allow you to recognize through an on the spot message?). supply him yet another probability in case you sense he is going to regulate, no longer because you want him. i recognize it is more straightforward stated than finished, yet in case you supply him yet another probability because you want him, you'll finally end up hurting even more beneficial. you opt for therefore as to regain your trust in him (and it takes 2).

Answer 10

Depending on how long you have been trying...maybe its time to ge yourself tested to make sure that you are ovulating...have a HSG to make sure that tehre is no blockages...or have hubby's sperm tested. I felt pretty bad too when month by month no baby...and people that aren't even trying keep popping them out like a machine. Hang in there.