My girlfriends vagina smells, mostly all of the time. It smells like she takes a crap and wipes back to front dragging all of the smellies forward. I love going down on her, but it's hard to bare it when it smells that bad. Also, she is against douching, on the grounds that apparently it is not good for her woman parts. Is there an alternative for freshening up down there?
2007-02-13 01:51:15 · 10 answers · asked by RainHater 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I understand your situation. The only thing you can do is be open an honest with your girlfriend, but be prepared for this to be a sensitive issue. I would focus on her scent impacting your desire to please her orally instead of proposing that she wipes incorrectly. Try to make it about her helping you out...Helping you function...And, less about her issue. It will be much, much easier if you already communicate well with her and you both have a sense of humor about topics in this area.
However, I would suggest that unless she really is wiping incorrectly, her scent will likely remain. Some women just have smelly vaginae. Then your only options are for feminine wipes or a shower beforehand, but both do dampen the spontaneity of sex.
If she's not willing to work with you, then find another girlfriend. However, if she tries to address your concerns, then do your best to become more used to her scent...And, always please her longer when she is fresh. Appreciation will work where criticism does not.
2007-02-13 04:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by jason 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Does she shower regularly? It sounds like maybe she isn't cleaning herself often enough. Other than that your girlfriend is right, douching is not recommended as it cleanses that woman's natural lubricants which can cause infections. There are several other option such as Summer's Eve wipes, etc. which can be found in the same area as douche. I would say next time you get ready to go down on her tell her that you would prefer she take a shower first. This will not be taken as mean or rude, but will prompt the conversation for you.
Good luck.
2007-02-13 04:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby wipes can help her. Stop buying toilet paper and use only baby wipes this will make sure even if she is going from back to frint with wiping that she will get the smell and anything that is not needed there. Also there is something else. If you like to go down on her then when you are in the mood then ask her to take a shower with you. She will wash herself and you be able to press against her and let her know that you are in the mood. Washing and then there is no way that it can smell bad. Hell you can even wash her yourself and you would be good to know that she is not going to smell. YEAH!! Good luck. I hope this helped.
2007-02-13 03:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by fxysxysrkly 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
All the other suggestions about wipes is good..I don't know how open you guys are and honest...but I can't imagine she will take it well if you tell her..Have you tried just showering together and washing each other? That is a romantic thing to do and she wont think anything of it when you wash her down there...hope this helps.
2007-02-13 02:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Christine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women can use wipes to clean the area in front and back and then she will be sure she is really clean. Many women use then anyways just to be sure they get everyhting. Other wise do stuff after she takes a shower.
2007-02-13 02:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are feminine wipes she can use. Summer's Eve is one example. There are also tons of other feminine washes out on the market that are very gentle on 'woman parts'.
2007-02-13 02:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by ladydi_1987 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go to the drug store or wal-mart and buy her some scented vaginal spray and wipes and some safeguard soap. then you could put it in a cute little bag with some body wash and maybe some lingerie and scented lotion. make it a cute little gift. give it to her one night and then ya'll should get in the shower together and clean each other. when you get out. rub her down in the good smelling lotion and complement her on how good she smells. act like her smelling good is the biggest turn-on ever. afer that, she should be more conscientious about her bodily odors and she will probably use the stuff you gave her................................
or you could just go somewhere with her and when a girl walks by just whisper to her:" ughh, that girl stinks, i hate it when girls stink down there, that is such a turn-off... that'll make her think........................................
or you could go with her to the store to buy tampons and stuff (vaginal wipes and sprays are located near there) when she gets to that section, you could casually walk pass the wipes and spray and ask: "hey babe, have you ever tried any of this stuff. this cinnamon one smells good. it mite taste good too........
maybe that'll get her!
2007-02-13 09:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 15⤊ 2⤋
baby wipes??? just a lil suggestion lol...
2007-02-13 02:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
You should go jogging or something and work up a good sweat. Then tell her to go down on you. If she says you smell, tell her that you thought she was into that sort of thing.
2007-02-13 04:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by KidDynomite 3 · 42⤊ 3⤋