Why am I attracted to older black woman, im arab american from detroit and im 19 yrs old. I have 4 sisters, and no brothers. I dont know if that helps. But im very very attracted to older black woman, I admire, and respect independent 25 and up black woman, even sometimes with kids. I am attracted to them in every aspect, their personalties, and pyhsically. Thanks.....
2007-02-13 01:48:22 · 7 answers · asked by ammari1212 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Im not ashamed of it, I love Black Woman, I was just actually wondering if anyone, could relate.
2007-02-13 02:36:17 · update #1
As answer number one states it's a preference, a matter of choice, and you define it as IN EVERY ASPECT. Certainly there is no moral, ethical, or legal crime in what you seem to be attracted to.
I guess my question to you might be, "Does this trouble YOU?"
I'll assume that in part it's a culturally referenced issue, and growing up with sisters is also no sin.
I'll further assume that IF this troubles you, the angst is based on the perceptions of others, either expressed or suggested.
Have you explored this feeling? Have you been rebuffed? Accepted?
The GOOD news is,,, likely not in my lifetime,,, One day we will all be the same race, and hopefully have evolved enough to gain tolerance, acceptance, believe in some levels of compromise, and not stress about differences that may exist, especially based on color, origin, belief systems, etc.
Steven Wolf
(The Rev.)
2007-02-13 02:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by DIY Doc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not get involved with women who have children, because there is a very good chance that the fathers of these children will cause needless drama in your life, and you are too young to throw your life away on that. Only you know why you are attracted to black women, perhaps it is their personalities, or how they carry themselves. Any number of reasons, this is not something abnormal, yet I get the feeling like you are thinking its supposed to be abnormal?
2007-02-13 13:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Bonzai Betty 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You go boy, you will never go unloved or hungry and older black women can be one of the best friends you can have, but don't take her love or attention lightly, for to fore sake her is worst than death.
2007-02-15 05:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's your preference. There's nothing wrong with it. Some men prefer blondes, some red heads, you just happen to prefer black women.
2007-02-13 09:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by AzOasis8 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because one you are attracted to woman, and two because you are fortunate to know what type of woman you are interested in. believe me, some men older than you are still playing the field and hurting women out there who are looking for someone who already knows what he wants. kudoos to you!
2007-02-13 10:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by hippy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
We can not help who we are attracted to.
2007-02-13 10:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you just like them, that's good and nothing wrong with it.
2007-02-13 11:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by User 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋