depends on you and your partner,& both of your understandings .
2007-02-13 01:54:00
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answered by Dighi_143 2
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well after you get married, you have to set some limits for yourself. First, you can't go playing around with other guys anymore you made a commitment. Second, Trust your new husband as much as possible, remember that a relationship without trust is as empty as a gun without bullets ( sorry just had to put a grim fandango quote in there! ). Marriage is a journey, there may be some bumps in the road but It will go smoth again. what I mean is that in marriage you begin to realize that even when you and your hsband got along very well, after marriage you begin to disagree on some things. If you're being abused call the police to have him arrested. And if you play your cards right you two might even be ready to start a family of your own. Hope I helped!!!
2007-02-13 10:29:34
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answered by Karmen 2
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You life will be how ever you allow it and want it to be. Of course there will be extra pressures and you will have to learn to get along with your partner day in and day out. If you both remember one thing you wont have any problems which is the two of you will never always agree on the same thing. Women and men dont think alike and dont do things alike. You have to learn to meet in the middle and not try to change each other. When you say I do it is supposed to mean you do no matter what. If you get bored let your partner know and meet in the middle and come up with something so you wont be bored. Same thing if your partner does something that bugs you . Tell them and meet in the middle. You are supposed to be a team and dont let anyone get in between you two. Keep your personal lives personal. And remember that your partner is supposed to come before all others. If you are afraid that your partner may find out if you do something then dont do it. Dont lie to your partner . Learn to bit your toung. When something upsets you dont say a word and take a few seconds to think about it and you will probalby find that it was really stupid what ever it was that made you mad. I say there is only one reason a couple has to really get mad and thats if one comes home and finds the other in bed with someone else. Other then that learn to compromize. Good luck . and hopefully you both really are in love and ready to get married and it isnt being forced. Learn to enjoy one another.
2007-02-13 10:19:46
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answered by hersheynrey 7
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Pretty much the same as when you're engaged, but you know that if you have a fight, it's so way complicated to get out of. It gives you a sense of more security and partnership. A feeling of "we can do anything together" mentality. It's nice when it's a good marriage. I've had both. I'm in a good one now. Before you get married make sure you want to be with the person with all your heart AND mind. It has to make sense.
2007-02-13 09:38:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Marrage is the hardest thing you will ever go threw. Two adults, constantly clashing. Women nagging, men being lazy. You will not believe how hard it is to make a marrige successful. May I strongly suggest giving your spouse loads of compliments, and never no matter man, or woman, never think you have it worse than them. A working man will never know the stresses of a stay at home mother, and a woman will never know the weight of the world that is put apon the man's sholders.
But in the end, once you figure it out, it is the most satisfing and wonderful feeling in the world.
good luck.
p.s. the first year with a child is hell.
2007-02-13 09:44:47
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answered by gibson_slayer 3
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I've been married to the same lovely woman that I married 55 years ago.
It is a delight to see her walking around doing the things that she does. We have no secrets and she does and goes where ever she wishes. Here's the one big thing that has kept us together.
When one or the other of us is wrong, we approach the other holding our forehead (in silence) between our thumb (on one side) and middle and ring fingers (on the other) - and bow our head.
This silent gesture means "I hate it when you're right - it gives me a head ache."
Sometimes - she or I will say, "That's not good enough!" And we'll have to "squeeze" hard, grit our teeth in mock dismay, and really bow down!
This technique turns "Being wrong into a display of affection."
I love this woman and being married.
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2007-02-13 09:53:10
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answered by james 3
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Initial years of married life are of adjusting. Will seem tough to get through though most of us do succeed. After you have adjusted and understood your spouse to even a small extent, then marriage gets interesting, and fruitful;; children growing up etc.
2007-02-13 09:48:02
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answered by Kool-kat 4
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It will be beautiful, if you know how to manage the marriage life beautifully. Remember give and take is the first rule in marriage life.
2007-02-13 11:16:06
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answered by yogasun2002 2
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Life is what you make it; if the person you're marrying is indeed the right one, then when life's little problems pop up from time to time (as they always do) then you'll get through it together.
Don't worry or be apprehensive about the future, if you spend all your time in the future, you never get to experience the now.
2007-02-13 09:48:14
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answered by Anonymous
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That just depends on how you want it to change. You have to understand that you no longer are just a person you and your mate are one. If you are committed enough to get married you are in that frame of mind already however, if you are not willing to make the changes that come with marriage: commitment, sacrifice, compromise etc............you will wind up a statistic.
2007-02-13 09:40:48
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answered by Truely 2
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If u marry a mistake in ur life than uwill be caught like mosquito in a net. ur life wille like puri without dough &idli without sambar.
or else (a good &caring wife)
Its very fresh with understanding the depth in life
2007-02-13 09:58:01
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answered by sharu_2020 1
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