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My ex and his guy friend went skiing together. Whenever I drop things off for the kids, he is there with a glass of wine. They both bought clogs. They sit on a love seat at the same time. Once I came and the friend had taken my daughter to the bathroom, not my ex. Hey guys, what do you think? I am serious. I am trying to figure out a custody angle.

2007-02-13 01:30:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

Simple question. Must be latent.

2007-02-13 01:52:46 · update #1

Where did I say that I want to take the children away? Must not have had your coffee yet. I do not want men handling my daughter but I guess that is OK with you guys as well?

2007-02-13 01:54:54 · update #2

17 answers

Well i don't know he could be GAY because that is kinda weird them drinking wine and sitting on the love seat but also what type of father is he to allow another man to take his child to the restroom that doesn't even make any since. I hope you get to keep your kids a woman is probably be better then two fathers.

2007-02-13 01:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

Okay, uh yeah the wine thing is kind of strange. But that alone doesnt make someone gay. Sitting on the love seat together also strange. What, there isnt any other furniture? The other guy taking your daughter to the restroom?! Are you kidding me? Thats not so good. That might be the thing that helps you out in the custody battle. Daddy is NOT doing things in the best interest of his daughter. But the thing that gets me the most...THE CLOGS!! Red flag all the way. Yuck! Clogs on a guy are just wrong!! (clogs on a straight guy that is, on Gays they are adorable...not wanting to offend anyone here..everyone has a right to chose what kind of shoes they want to go around with.)
I dont think its going to help with a custody battle but its a good thing to know anyway.
Did your husband do anything to make you think he was gay when you were married? Does he have other guy friends? Is he dating women yet? Oh well, if he is gay you know the divorce wasnt your fault! LOL
Take care of yourself and your daughter and try to accept it I guess. You'll have to talk to your daughter about it someday if its true. Start trying to figure that one out. =) Good luck!

2007-02-13 02:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by My_Two_Centz 2 · 0 2

Skiing with friends, Drinking wine, buying the same shoes as a friend and sitting together does not a gay man make. Sorry to disappoint you...

If you have suspicions why don't you just ask him?

By the way, if your ex is gay, that won't have any bearing on custody, that doesn't effect his ability to raise a child.

Get your head out of the sand!

2007-02-13 01:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by Nichole D 2 · 3 1

Well whether he is gay or not I don't think you would have a right to take his children away. I wouldn't like the fact that a stranger took my child to the bathroom - and I would address that immediately. i would also ask my ex if he is gay - get that out in the open. Then maybe a lot of your questions will be answered.

2007-02-13 01:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Its nice that you spend your spare time trying to figure out ways to cheat your ex out of time w his chrn, I bet the kids enjoy the 3 hours of Q & A you give them after every visit to try and find something "wrong" at your ex's.
I don't know if he is gay or not but since obviously you are a selfish beyotch why not just go to court and say he is a child molester since I am sure that's where you are heading w this. Or why not say he is on drugs or a puppy killer - sure its not true and would be disproven in time but isnt that a nice "angle" that you could use to screw him out of a visit or two.
I am so sick of people like you~!!!!!!!

2007-02-13 01:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 1 1

Let me guess, you never spent time on a love seat with a glass of wine with him.
Based on this question I can see why you are not together.

Jealousy is such an unseemly emotion.

It sounds like you left without your kids and now want them back. Is that true? If it is why would anyone assume that you should reclaim custody?

2007-02-13 01:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1 1

I think you are disgusting.

"I am trying to figure ot a custody angle" - that says it all. you'd lie through your teeth to find something against your ex, and you'd use your daughter to "get back at him" - shame on you.

Even if this ex of yours is homosexual - what makes you think that he cannot be a loving parent to your daughter? Are you afraid that gay people only raise gay children - in the same way, of course, that straight people only raise straight children? Bigot.

I sincerely hope the courts see through your bigotry and nastiness and award sole custody to your ex - without any visitation rights for you!

2007-02-13 01:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by sewmouse 3 · 2 1

yes they probably are gay, but i dont think it will hold any weight in a custody battle. there are plenty of gay/lesbians raising kids these days and there is nothing wrong with it. some of those parents are better than the normal male/female parents out there now!!! as long as ur kids are comfy with it and are not being treated badly get over it!!! its an insecurity in ur part and thats some thing that u will just have to deal with...

2007-02-13 02:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0 2

Dont listen to these people. If he is gay you need to be concerned if he is having other men around who he is dating. You need to monitor who is handling your daughter - I can definitely see how you would be worried. It happens all the time if a divorced woman has boyfriends around, the ex tries to cause trouble for her too. Gay men dont normally have kids and if he was gay while you were married and you didnt know, I would be concerned for your children and what he will expose them to. If he isn't in a committed relationship with someone, they dont need to be around when he is spending time with the kids. That is what I would worry about whether it was a man or a woman.

2007-02-13 02:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by Tink 5 · 0 3

Sounds more like you are trying to create a situation so you can get full custody of the children. How unfair of you to put something out there just to benefit yourself and your SELFISH MOTIVES. Just remember what goes around comes around.

2007-02-13 02:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Monty L 5 · 1 1

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