We both still love each other. He told my sister that he still loves me, but hasn't told me yet. My sis also told him that I love him. I don't want to get back with him right now, but I do after I get my degree. I thought it would be kind of nice to tell him I still love him on Valentine's Day. Just so that he has finally heard it from me. It's childish I know, but I don't know if he loves me as much as I love him. I don't want to be played for a fool. On the other hand I think, hey it's Valentine's Day, why not!
2007-02-13 01:08:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
If you 2 connection is that strong and you talk at least once a week sure go right ahead u love him then say it!!! if u 2 hardly talk and u want to get over him then no but u said u r planning to get back togethere once u finish school than 4 the fire to still b alive i belive u should
2007-02-13 01:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by pj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay...if you really do love each other, there is no sense in waiting until you get your degree to be together. That's actually a bit of a ridiculous excuse. If you do love him, you better decide now whether or not you want to be with him before taking any action. It's rather stupid to say, 'hey, it's Valentine's Day, therefore I'm confessing my love for you, however, we cannot actually be a couple until after I get my degree.' Right now, I work full time, my boyfriend works full time, we both go to school in the evenings, he has additional committments with the national guard and will be starting law school in the fall...we are not putting off being together because of all our commitments...and will even be planning a wedding soon. It is possible to do more than one thing at a time, ya know.
2007-02-13 01:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First thing, Do not over text her. She will get annoyed and if you keep telling her "TAKE ME BACK I LOVE YOU." Learn here https://tr.im/BK6eP
She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.
She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.
2016-07-19 22:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell him that you love him on Valentines Day because that will make you look desperate. Its always sad not having a Valentine on Valentines Day, but there is always next year. If anything, wait another month or two and see if you might feel the same way...then talk to him about it, but I dont think telling him tomorrow would be the best thing.
2007-02-13 01:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-29 22:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be a good idea because it seems like you're only getting all sentimental because it's Valentine's day and you're feelings move with the holidays! Besides, if you don't want to be with him right now, don't string him along, If you love him you'll want better for him.
2007-02-13 01:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by child_n_light 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, an ex is an ex. That's why you X'd him out! Move on to someone who really cares about you and won't play you for a fool. :-)
2007-02-13 01:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by EDDie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-02 00:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Donald 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a better day to tell them!!!! fools fall inlove!!!!! why is your sister the go-thru person??? sounds like drama to me
2007-02-13 01:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't bother if he still loves why has he not told you by now. he is your ex.
2007-02-13 01:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by EVA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋