i know hes cheating on me again, but im full of s##t i dont know what im tyalking about, when has he got time to see anybody?? i ignored the first two missed calls (e was fast asleep,so was i) the 3rd call i just had to answer, "hello is kenny there?" "yes e is ,who are you?" "its debbie, can u put him on please?" cannot write what got said next
"but i dont know any debbies i dont know who she is or how she got my number" how can i can prove him wrong that way i can walk away, with my head up, if i cant prove him wrong then i tend to run away from him only to be dragged back "because E LOVES ME,
sadly i already know that i should leave him, i should get on withn my life i know what most people think but im not strong enough es worn me down and made me feel worthless i feel like a nobody how do i get out of this life
2007-02-13 00:36:21 · 9 answers · asked by joanne c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your kind of in the same situation as me. my man cheats on me. he went with 3 other women when i was pregnant. but love is a fuckin weird thing. you cant just change your feelings when you want to. because he knows he can get away with it and you will still be there for him you are giving him leway to do it, just like me. and it fuckin hurts. if our men love us that much then why do they **** on us. u give a man your all and they throw it back in your face but in ther eeyes ' they love you' but if you ask me, its a funny fuckin way of love! strangly enough one of the women my man went when i was pregnant was also called debbie. its hard to leave them because they make you feel that worthless you dont beleive you have got it in you to move on or find another relationship but all i can say to you darlin and please keep it in you head.... IF YOUR HURTING WITH HIM, THEN WHY NOT HURT WITHOUT HIM. good luck xxx
2007-02-17 00:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by lipz20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard as it may be u have to let him go ... He really isn't worth all the stress and pain ... yes he has made u feel worthless and believe me it only gets worse from there on in ....U have to get out , he has taken your self respect and your pride , claim them back ... He wont ever change, men like that don't and why should he when u are giving him what he wants !? I am not having a go at u , i know how hard it is , but whats a few months of grieving over this relationship compared to what the guy is putting u thro now ?
Leave , learn to love yourself and go and have some fun , relationships are about , trust , love and mutual respect yours has none of this !
2007-02-13 09:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by jizzumonkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you have to leave so DO IT! Are you jus staying for the sake of having a relationship even if you're miserable in it?? I know alot of women who have including myself. Give yourself a chance to be happy chick's. Find someone that gives you the respect you deserve. Let this 'Debbie' girl deal with his s@it. I hope you make it. Good luck x x x
2007-02-13 08:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you call Debbie and ask her what's going on? I would.
Thing is,you know this,'I don't know any Debbies.' is a feeble lie-she asked for him by name!!!! Tell him you won't be made a fool of and he needs to go. Don't feel worthless-it's not you that has the problem-it's him.
2007-02-13 08:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, you just have to walk away. I know it'll be hard but do you want to spend the rest of your life being treated like sh*t? There are better men out there who will treat you with the respect you deserve. You say that he loves you but if he did would he treat you this way? If someone loves you then they shouldn't make you feel worthless.
2007-02-13 08:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of cos you are somebody. No matter how bad your feel now, the most important thing is to leave him. Then after that you can figure what to do with your life. It will take time, but you will be happy again.
2007-02-13 08:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by chardonnayormerlot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one step at a time until you realise you are far enough away to have a clear thought that places you first
2007-02-13 15:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by MALANIE E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to try your best and tell him get on with life normally how it was before meeting him or try to tell him ur problem if he luvz u im sure he will understand
2007-02-13 08:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by No S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be brave inside you and step forward.
2007-02-16 07:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by anuranjan a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋