2007-02-13 00:14:06 · 14 answers · asked by Neeta 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. Read his Diaries if he keeps it. Steal it away.
2. Read hi emails at his back. Forward it to yourself
3. Reacd his txt messages & steal his phone & keep it as a proff if you find anything wrong.
4. If you can put a video camera in car, put recording device in landline
5. hire a private dedactive if you can
6. Try to steal his money or property papers, share certificates etc so that when you fall out you are safe & he does not harm you
7. A lady on the forum was right put some kind of ittchy power in his pants to take piss out of him
2007-02-13 00:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I snooped on my husband's computer and found her email address (nothing related to work) and became suspicious. Later, I checked his handphone for messages and phone numbers that are frequent. Took down the numbers and start dialing them. Within 2 weeks, I got my answers. He was cheating for 16 months but he ended the affairs 4 months before I found out. Eventhough my husband ended the affair before I found out, the other woman still calls and email my husband quite often. Other suggestion, hire a PI if you can afford it. Get evidence for court case later.
2007-02-13 01:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel a need to catch him? Yes, you're hurt and you should be. I suggest spending your energy on deciding whether you want to stay in the relationship or not. If so, then talk to him about it... with a minimum of yelling and screaming... that doesn't help things. Find out why he's cheating, is it just physical or does he truly care for her? If you want to leave, then just leave... make whatever arrangements you have to, then go. Drama isn't necessary, and besides... if you are calm, it will bug him even more than if you rant and rave about it. Just do what's best for you, and move on. You be the strong one, no matter whether you leave or stay! Good luck! :o)
2007-02-13 00:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by JP 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hire a PI, then you don't have to see it first hand and you will get the physical proof you need. Although nothing will happen to him(unless he is military) in court, if you divorce it is leverage and you can file on grounds of adultry.
But don't go "getting even" or you could be the one in the bad light.
2007-02-13 00:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all hire a Private Investigator, or if that is out of the question, tell a gf and the both of you follow him. Also get ahold of itching powder and put it in his shorts in the morning. That could scare the beejebees out of the other woman. Sorry couldnt resist that image in my head :-))))
2007-02-13 00:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first make sure that really Ur hubby is having an extra marital affair or not .if yes-than make random calls to Ur hubby on his cell or sometimes on his office number.if possible than visit Ur hubby's office.be in regular touch with ur hubby's frnd.check him regularly.and if possible than follow him.ask him abt his daily work im sure this will surely work
2007-02-13 01:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd hire a private investigator. If you cannot afford one, maybe you can hire a friend / co-worker / family member to follow him and take pics.
2007-02-13 00:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private detective,let him find out where are the pigeons are meeting and then you go there and catch them!
2007-02-13 00:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Adviser 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private investigator in your area. They are well trained and very effective.
2007-02-13 00:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I cannot imagine why you would want to see him having sex with another woman. You already know all that you need to know. Simply start behaving in accordance with your knowledge.
2007-02-13 00:24:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋