I have a problem i was recently in a vilont relationship and i am 6 weeks pregnant with his child, i still love him and i dont want to go to the police about him cuz every time that i do he comes after me and beats me up i dont know what to do please help! xx
due to this i have suffered two misscariges and dont want to losse this baby
2007-02-13 00:01:23 · 10 answers · asked by Bipolar-Bird88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get out of the relationship fast
2007-02-13 00:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your are farther ahead than a lot of women because you are not in that relationship anymore. You made it out. If you have family and they will help you, let them. Have your baby and keep the baby away from him. Hence, the less involvement he has with everything, your pregnancy, birth, etc will be better. You said "when you call the police...", so there should be reports and dispatched runs for the incidents. Get copies of those police reports to keep him away from you and the baby. Any trips to ER, use that too. If he is capable of "beating you up", I would not trust him with the baby/child. Honestly, beaters and abusers do not change. There are those few but they are willing to, and have gone through counseling to change their lives, change their patterns and are willing to do anything to make amends. A true man does not use violence against a female, child or anything that happens to be weaker than he is or vulnerable to him. You deserve better. Your baby deserves better. You should also seek counseling. Being abused by someone who you love and is supposed to love you does a lot of damage to you both physically and mentally. It damages your self esteem and causes a great deal of internal conflict. I wish you the best. God Bless You.
2007-02-13 08:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to hear about the harsh relationship you are having and the miscarriages. It is painful. In case you wish to have the baby, do not give him any chance of erupting in anger. Once you have delivered the baby keep away from him and stay with your baby. I feel if relationship turns sadastic then that is not a relationship. Have courage and live for the child.
2007-02-13 08:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is beating you then you seriously need him out of your life, it starts out a little and then sooner or later the beatings get worse and worse until you end up in a hospital or dead. You should tell the cops everything and get a personal protection order pronto! Don't put your and the baby's life on the line.
2007-02-13 08:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by mystique133333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all,i think u should get out of that relationship.if u dont feel comfortable going to the police then dont go.jus leave that crazy man alone,dont let love keep u there or else u might end up dead or something.he has no right hitting u,and its even worse because he's beating u while you're pregnant with his child.your self esteem must be really low.leave him alone u could do better.
2007-02-13 08:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by hott g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if this is a joke its a poor one
if you are telling the truth you are beyond repair
get some professional help and forget about the beating and all that other nonsense..there are shelters for you and jail for him
the next beating could be because you did not cook his eggs right and he could kill you
he could also kill your children, parents, friends, and neigbors.
think about some else besides your own life..if this is the truth
2007-02-13 08:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worth so much better do you know that...
No one can hurt you like that and abuse you.
I'm happy that you are pregnant but do you want to have your child see how her daddy beat her/his mother up.
Stop hating yourself stop thinking you deserve nothing better than this man that does not care for himself and intern do not care for you.
I pray for you
2007-02-13 08:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by janice m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been watching the news. Haven't you seen the footage of the women whose boyfriends set them afire. Don't let it be you. For your own safety, get out! You can't trust a maniac!
2007-02-17 00:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Snobunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him as fast a you can. If you've got a relative near by, stay with them and then get out of town as quick as possible.
2007-02-13 08:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Eddie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your questions...
Did you drink your liter of vodka today?
He beat you up and caused your first miscarriage?
You were pregnant with twins and called the police, but he wasn't responsible for this miscarriage?
2007-02-13 08:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by sadie_oyes 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋