I have a problem i was recently in a vilont relationship and i am 6 weeks pregnant with his child, i still love him and i dont want to go to the police about him cuz every time that i do he comes after me and beats me up i dont know what to do please help! xx
due to this i have suffered two misscariges and dont want to losse this baby
2007-02-12 23:58:24 · 14 answers · asked by Bipolar-Bird88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1. Leave the guy - if you dont - you are totally STUPID!
You deserve what you tolerate!
2. Get a restraining order
3. Contact your local battered women's shelter
Dont give up. You need to be strong for your child. If this man loved you he would have never laid a hand on you in the first place. There are a variety of women's shelters who help women in situations such as yourself. Look up in the phone book for a shelter. The people there can help protect you and you baby further.
2007-02-13 01:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by texaspride1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just get away from him. He seems like too much trouble. Sometimes your safety, and that of your baby's, is more important than the love you have with this man.
Get a job, get a house, get a good life going.
But are you sure you're ready for a baby? Just something else to think about.
MaybeLater_x
2007-02-13 08:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Deconstitutionalization 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...okay, I think you need to head to a women's shelter. They will keep you there secretly, at least until the storm blows over. But you must, I repeat MUST get away from this man. I have seen it one too many times when he starts out this way, and I do not mean to scare you at all, but it will escalate. He will only get worse and worse and if you choose to have this baby then you cannot allow it to be raised in this environment. You can do this. Call the shelter...they will tell you what to do. My warmth and hope is with you.
2007-02-13 08:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are battered women's shelters that will take care of you in every large city. FIND ONE. You need to learn to NOT love him. He is not doing lovable things. He is not worthy of your love. On the other hand, your baby deserves all your love and a stable home.
You only have one choice IF you REALLY want to save the baby....stay away from him at all costs.
You need to be strong for yourself and baby.
2007-02-13 08:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you do go to the cops which you should you can put an restraining order on him which yuo should and we wont beable to hurt you any more but girl you need help and if your baby as bad as you say you do take the drastic measures because no tonly is yur life at stack so is your child so go to the police and get help becasue you will be better off in life an yea you may love him but love never lets someone abuse you so get help your in danger!
2007-02-13 08:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by Baby_ Frizell 09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somewhere to stay without him finding out. Phone the police and tell them whats going on. If you don't it will just keep happening over and over and it will hurt you in the long term. Guys like him should be punished! They think they are the superior race but they're not, in fact there isn't words to describe what half of the men in our world are. But seriously hide and tell the police - he needs to be punished!
2007-02-13 08:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemme have a go at him! jk If you love him tell him what needs to be done between you two. I suggest bringing the baby into the discussion. It might be scary to talk to him but as others have said, keep the phone handy in case something goes wrong. If he loves you as much as you love him, He'll listen.
2007-02-13 08:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by cool arrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AND YOU STILL LOVE HIM?????? WELL IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO LOVE YOUR SELF ENOUGH TO GET OUT OF THIS... HON THIS THINGS DO NOT GET BETTER AND FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILD AND IN THE MEMORY OF THIS TWO BABIES THAT HE BEAT OUT OF YOU.. BECAUSE HE KILLED YOUR BABIES YOU KNOW THAT?? YOU SHOULD GET STRONG AND GET AWAY FROM HIM... ONE DAY HE WILL KILL YOU AND GO ON TO PRISON AND IF HE GET LESS THAN LIFE HE WILL BE OUT TO KILL SOMEONE ELSE... GET PROTECTION FROM THE POLICE MOVE OUT OF TOWN CHANGE YOUR NAME... HAVE YOU SEEING THE MOVIE WITH JENIFER LOPEZ ENOUGH?? I BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE MORE AFRAID OF HIM THAN IN LOVE.. GET SOME HELP... WHAT ELSE CAN I TELL YOU?? YOU SAY YOU DONT WANT TO LOOSE YOUR BABY WELL YOU HAVE TO PROTECT THIS CHILD AND NOWWWWWWW IS THE TIME RUN AWAY... PLEASE GIRL.. DONT WAIT ANY LONGER. GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-13 08:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen u must go to the police and move away even if u do love him because he is causing pain and he could harm the baby
2007-02-13 08:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by redwrestlingblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him, you are addicted to him. He has caused the murder of two of your children.
You need to get away from him and get therapy. If you don't and you carry this baby to term, is this the example of love you want to show this innocent child?
Get therapy and get away from him... He should be in jail...
2007-02-13 08:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Zelda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋