How can I get closer to them?
2007-02-12 23:44:48 · 13 answers · asked by whitelighter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
by acting interested in what they got to say and of course the common bond what do you like that they do? and do it. talk frank and open. some people aren't geared for close friends and others are . so maybe wasting your time. but i notice if you are interest and if they are having a problem and you show concern you get closer.
2007-02-12 23:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get closer to them by seeing what interests them. If they like sports, movies, video games, ect..... try talking to them about it. You might have more things in common with them then you think!
2007-02-20 23:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by SweetPie09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have unresolved issues about getting close to people or even friends...usually if you are really friends you dont extend extra effort to be close it will come naturally because your friends ,unless your holding back your feelings .actually when i was younger i had lot set of friends but because i had some disappointing experiences with them im kinda aloof to be real close to some people whos befriending me now.but its lonely not to have real close friend...you need them to make your life more gay...asses yourself and make new friends.gudluk.
2007-02-13 08:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by tisya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens.even with me. like difference in nature, style. u can get closer by acting interested in what they talk abut. try to act like them.
2007-02-13 07:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting to know them better by asking them there favorite things, like their favorite colors, food, drinks, stuff like that.
2007-02-18 22:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Zee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to them at recess, hang out with them at lunch, or anything else you can do so that you would be able to know them better
Hope it works!!!!
2007-02-20 19:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by #1 All American Rejects fan!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take an interest in them.do,walk and talk like they do.they are your friends right?ask them to go out with you sometimes.
2007-02-21 07:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friendly involve your self more go out with them on fun days out to exciting places
2007-02-21 07:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by persian gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try hanging out with them more often.
2007-02-20 21:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from my experinse you need to look and act just like them
and then they gonna accept you.
2007-02-13 07:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Adviser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋