My sister caught her husband e-mailing this other woman. He told her it was over, but now she thinks he just changed his email, and password and is still writing her. Help!!
2007-02-12 23:20:36 · 13 answers · asked by Lila 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would suggest first off to have your sister and her husband try and work this out before taking this next step but if counsiling does not work and she beleives this is her only option...then I would tell her to log into his account and once the password is asked for she will not know it so have her change it..she should know the basic questions that they ask such as birthday or city he was born in. Or when she knows that he is checking him email then ask him to check on something..have her make up something...like their being a mouse in the garage or something that will need to be addressed asap. When he gets up and she is busy with him then you can check the email for her and let her know what you found.
I do not approve of this because I beleive if it comes to this then you should not be with the person anymore because trust is key in a marriage.
2007-02-13 00:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you let your sister handle her own situations? this isn't your problem, is it?
In the first place, if he's been cheating, he most likely will continue until his problem or issues are addressed. Find out what they are.
If this is something that can't be repaired then you have choices to make. You can either, leave the relationship or try and repair it. It's what you want to put into it or, what you feel it's worth.
2007-02-12 23:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do no longer comprehend i'd desire to conquer the two or that the two would be greater common to cope with. If he cheated in man or woman, i comprehend I easily would desire to no longer recover from it. i think of i'd be greater probably to over come a internet affair counting on the circumstances. If it replace into somebody who he had no theory who it replace into and it replace into greater of a myth kind element, I possibly waiting to forgive him (counting on what replace into mentioned interior the messages that have been exchanged).
2016-11-03 08:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by trevathan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a keyboad monitoring software, in that way you will se everything he types including passwords and e-mails.
2007-02-13 01:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing she can do is try and catch him doing it. If she doesn't trust her husband when he says he isn't doing it anymore she really needs to take a step back and evaluate their marriage to see if she really wants to stay in such a distrustfull marriage.
2007-02-12 23:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only way I can think of is to set up another profile and pretend to be another woman, send him emails that start off friendly and get slightly more flirtatious, but that's kind of setting him up and not totally fair.
2007-02-12 23:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do what those other people said...buy one of those programs. It records keystrokes so you can get their passwords and I also think some of them take "snapshots" of what is currently up on the screen.
2007-02-12 23:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for the womans email addy and ask for your husbands password and email account so you have complete access.
2007-02-12 23:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This case sounds like it may qualify for an episode on cheaters
2007-02-12 23:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by 5-Stars 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best bet is to just get a spyware program and catch him, but she better be willing to follow through with a divorce.
2007-02-13 00:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋