is it possible that i get pregnant while i'm a virgin and he didnt insert his penis in me or even ejaculate in

Question

i was with a 42 years old guy,and we didnt have a real sex,we were just rubbing,i am a virgin and he didnt insert his penis in me at all,and he didnt ejaculate in me at all too,but he ejaculated on the bed and a bit on my butt and a bit next to my vigina and leg,is it possible that i get pregnant,m so worried,it was a mistake

Answer 1

How old are you?

If you have to even ask this question then you are way too young to be rolling naked in bed with a 42 year old man, who should know better than to take advantage of a child.

Having unprotected sexual contact with anyone is never a good idea, unless you are in an exclusive relationship and are both confirmed disease free. You can catch many things - pregnancy is the least of your worries.

But in answer to your question, if your are fertile (ovulating) and one of his sperm finds its way inside you (on a tissue, or on your hands or something), even if he didn't penetrate you or ejaculate inside you, then yes, pregnancy is possible. NEVER believe a man who tells you it's impossible, he is grossly misinformed.

Before you do this again with anyone, get to a doctor, a nurse, a counsellor or other TRUSTED adult (NOT this guy) and get informed about your body, about sex, about contraception, about diseases, about HIV, about pregnancy and about the responsibilities that go with having sex.

And try to love yourself a little bit more, ok? You don't need to be used and abused like this.


******EDITED TO ADD: As a trained medical professional it is seriously concerning me how many people are telling this poor young woman that there is no way she could be pregnant, perhaps giving her false hope and sending a VERY irresponsible message to other young people who may read this - that as long as actual intercourse does not take place you are safe from pregnancy. THIS IS ABSOLUTELY WRONG. Please, do not engage in any type of sexual activity if you do not want to risk pregnancy or any type of sexually transmitted disease. ***********

Answer 2

Well alot of people believe that you cant get pregnant if the semen didnt enter your body but that is FALSE as long as it was released near your vagina you can become pregnant see sperm are like little heat seakers and can find their marks as longas they are in the general vacinety the odds are very low but it has happened.Hun if your a virgin then please be more cautious with your actions or you will be a mother apperently before you are ready, if your having contact with a 42 yr old man odds would say your not old enough to even be considering sex or anything of that nature, I truely hope your atleast 20 or older but either way I seriously suggest getting some further education about sex you could be opening yourself up to so many things besides other then pregnancy.....

Answer 3

Yes, it's possible since you said "a bit next to my vigina" Whether hymen has been broken or not,( you wouldn't know if you even have hymen., because some don't have it) it's possible that you can be pregnant but chances are low. If you are worried, you should wait until your next period date and get tested with home pregnancy test.
Certain conditions must meet in order for a woman get pregnant.
1. you must be during the unsafe days, ovulation (usually 14 days after the first day of your last period, but count from 3 days earlier and 3 days later, total in a week).
2. His sperms must be strong enough to get into your vigina to fertile
3.You must be able to fertile (strong eggs)
Check yourself if you did on those days.
Don't worry much because stress can make you delay your next period and you will get more stress.
Next time, even not inserting and not ejaculating inside, use condoms to be safe for STDs and pregnancy.

Answer 4

Ok, it's not likely you are pregnant. The only way that you could get pregnant from this would be the part that got next to your vagina...depending on how close it was. If sperm have a path that they can swim, they can swim it. So basically if you were wet and it got near the opening of your vagina and they were able to swim in that you have a chance at being pregnant. If by saying next to your vagina, you mean it got on your dry leg, than no you are not pregnant. Are you over 18?

Answer 5

If he didnt ejaculate inside of you then you have absolutely nothing to worry about. Even if he ejaculated near your vagina you still have nothing to worry about. There is only a small window of opportunity to fall pregnant and to fall pregnant he has to ejaculate inside of you - this is between days (approx) 13 - 16 of your cycle - day 1 being the first day of your period. I hope this helps put your mind to rest.

Answer 6

no normally it does not happen as pregnancy needs a proper ejaculation in the vagina but not on the leg or the butt . its safe until a proper amount of it enters the vagina. but make sure it was just a little bit and does not enter the vagina

Answer 7

why are you in bed with a 42 year old? he needs to be in jail this sounds like a case of molestation, no if what you said happen then no. stay away from this guy or tell your partents, if you are a minor. if you are an adult then do what you want. just sounds to me that you are with A CREEP.

Answer 8

You may get pregnant, dear. Even a drop is sufficient. Do a home test.

Answer 9

offcourse not...
till the time he did not insert his penis or ejalucate near to hole of your vagina, you are not going to pregnant.

but the possibility can not be over ruled. but remember rubbing penis outside of vagina noone is going to pregnant untill and unless he ejalucate near to your vagina and may through your hole whihc leads to fertilise of your egg.

Answer 10

Not to worry this time but get that man OFF your mind.Its your life and your body ...damn it.Just dont waste for some CREEP