2007-02-12 22:02:45 · 37 answers · asked by mum-2-be 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Absolutely everything lol
losing the baby is the big one then a painfull labour then the risk of the baby been still born, then the baby having something wrong medically, then them not feeding properly the constant worry of cot death etc the list goes on and on I was a nervous wreck while pregant.
But I cant even tell you things get better, my son is 8 now and I worry about him every day its worse when they start playing out theres so many dangers I dont think I will ever stop worrying about him.
Good luck and try not to let it get to you too much everything will be fine xx
2007-02-12 22:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The first 3 months I didn't worry about anything except getting more sleep!!
The 2nd 3 months the reality starts to set in and it was money and labour that were on my mind.
The 3rd 3 months labour worries pale into insignificance as you would welcome anything that gets the baby out!!! I worried more about being a good mum by this stage. How would I cope with getting up several times every night? With all the little things?
But I'm not a worrier by nature, I imagine some people worry about everything!!! I can see that it would be easy to do.
2007-02-12 22:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
that the baby will be born healthy and without any physical or mental problems. And that it won't be totally ugly!! I was lucky especially as my first was at age 40! Apart from that, I think my maturity actually helped me NOT to worry or stress about anything else.....it's not good for the mother or baby you know! But then I have a working husband and a nice roof over our heads although no family around me. So I didn't have a lot to worry about. It really does depend on your circumstances, age and personality I think.
2007-02-13 00:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by nephtine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that OH MY DEAR GOD where'd me waist line go?! and whether this is normal, or that is normal...i was in a crash on the M1 the other week n now every little pan i get im straight over to the doc's. found out since that i'd broken a rib, bad whiplash, and my baby had fetal bruising...oh the bugger who caused the crash will pay!!! mwhahahaha...sorry. mainly we worry if the baby's ok, n if things we're experiencing are normal or not, or if we'll be a good mum, if we will 100% of the time be able to support the baby finacially, whether the dad will do a runner (mine did, git) how ppl will react, the fact that our lives are never going to be the same ever again. then u c a lil newborn in the local shop, or park n realise that its all worth it.
when my man left i felt like rubbish, felt like i'd failed my unborn daughter already! then my friend brought her newborn neice round and as soon as i saw her i went all mushy, then i held her and knew that it was all worth it, and i hadn't feiled her, but if anything her father had failed her and me by leaving. now i just want the next 13 weeks to go by asap!!!!
2007-02-13 06:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worried about miscarriage in my first trimester (happened before) then I worried about if they baby was growing good, and was healthy in my 2nd. In my 3rd I worried about if I was going to go into premature labor and if I was going to be a good mom or not, and that a baby is the biggest responsibility you will ever have. It was scary to think this little human being was totally depending on you for everything. Once they are here though, it comes natural, most of it anyway!
2007-02-13 02:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything.
Especially with your first you are changing your whole life, everything is going to change once you've had the baby, relationships, feelings, your body, this is scary in itself but also your babys health, every mother wants a healthy baby, how the labour is going to go, will it hurt? ( by the way - YES! ) Lots and Lots of worries, but as soon as that baby is born, they'll all dissappear you wont have a worry in the world - just a perfect beautiful baby to give all your love to! Good luck!
2007-02-15 02:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Leesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my babies movement i used to flip out if i didnt feel my baby move for the day it was constantly on my mind i made a few trips to the er with both my pregnancies only to wait get in see a doctor and then yes the baby moves lol what a worry wart i am when im pregnant.
another thing i worry about is how big my baby will be we have a history of big babies my youngest girl now 8 months was 9lb at birth and i had her over 2 weeks early goodluck to you.
2007-02-12 23:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by nomorebabieshaha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I worried about everything, miscarriage, constantly being sick - that the baby was getting enough nutrition, that the baby was developing normally, labour etc. Its funny that the only thing I never really though about or worried about was preterm labour which is what happened to me!
I think if when we have another that is what I will be worrying about!
2007-02-13 02:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by lovelylittlemoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm one of those people that look calm outside but are really worrying and scared inside! I'm 25weeks myself andhave just about everything going through my mind- that the baby will be healthy, that I dont go inot premature labour, that I'll have everything ready for when he comes, that I'll know what to do when he comes, and that the 'maternal instinct' kicks in when he's born!!
Hope there's not too many of you guys out there worrying as much as I am!!
2007-02-12 22:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by ruthieelle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I spend enough time on this site to say people worry about absolutely everything!!
In the first trimester - miscarriage
2nd trimester - what's going on with the pregnancy. Is the baby developing ok
3rd trimester - baby coming early, the labour.
As mothers, we are doomed to spend the rest of our lives worrying about our children, and that starts from the momemt we find out we are pregnant!
2007-02-12 22:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by Ricecakes 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋