I haven't exactly had a charmed life. It has actually been far from that!
My best friend has been there for me 100% everytime that I have needed her, and I have been there for her as well. I love her with all my heart, but I can't seem to be able to stand her anymore. We have just develped into polar opposites... I am more the relaxed kind of person. The one who doesn't mind stayin home on a Friday night, and renting a few good flicks. She is the one going out to bars, getting drunk and regretting everything she did the next morning. Like I said, I am there for her 100%, so when she completely f*cks up, and she is upset. I comfort her. It just seems like anymore I am the only one GIVING in our relationship. I don't want to just stop being her friend, but the only time that we even hang out anymore is when I go to see her at the nearest bar. She admits that she drinks too much, but can/will not sotp/cut back. I'm not going to change, and neither is she. What's a girl to do?
Thankyou!
2007-02-12 21:59:03 · 1 answers · asked by ♥Brandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like you are growing up - that is a good thing!!!
They say you are lucky if you have one true best friend - and mabey you have not met them yet!!
You do grow apart from people without breaking friends and mabey in a couple of years you will meet up and start your friendship again.
Don't let yourself worry. If you both love each other as much as you say things will be fine.
Let her do her own thing and when she wants a quiet night in she knows where to go
:-)
2007-02-12 22:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by newsboysno1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋