Should a woman continue to be in an unhappy and a painfulmarraige when shes convinced that theres nothing much to do there?
2007-02-12 21:52:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no one should....time to move on...good luck
2007-02-12 21:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither a woman nor a man should continue to be in a painful marriage if there is nothing for him or her in that marriage. And here is where those religions which force people to remain in false and unhappy marriages have totally failled, no matter what is said. Marriage is in principle an experiment for two people who think or very conviced that they are in love to put in practice what they think or believe in.
During the experimental period if the two find themselves in compatibility or willingeness to mutual compromise, fine, but if not then there is no power from anywher to force them to be "together". The sooner they separate amicably the better and each find his or her own way of happy life, again.
All the best!
2007-02-12 22:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way You are the most important person for you and you have only life - a short one - so why to waist it? After you will be out of the marriage It will not be easy for an year but after you will start to see the world with different eyes. Why to lose part of your life with things that does not make you happy or do not satisfy you?
Think and act in time you will be sorry look around you
2007-02-12 22:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by Helena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if a woman is not happy she should leave and find happiness elsewhere, life is too short to waste in an unhappy marriage you see happiness is free, but being unhappy has a very high price.. the rest of your life. good luck.
2007-02-12 23:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set down with your husband and talk.Get to the root of the unhappiness and pain.Is there abuse in the marriage?If so, has there been any counseling done for the abused and abuser.Is there any love left on both sides. I truly believe if a marriage is to end it should be ended by both parties.
2007-02-12 22:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by lee d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if the woman wants to continue to have an unhappy and painful life...........if the woman wants to change her life and be happy, then she should be taking steps to work it out or get out, life is too short
2007-02-12 22:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have only one life here on this earth, and if your not in a happy marriage why make it worse by staying with this person, i would talk it over and if it does not inprove, i would move on and there are plenty out there who would be happy to have someone that wants to have a happy marriage,live today as if it is your last, why be unhappy,
2007-02-12 22:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by mdwright48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no get out dont waste your life unhappy when happiness could be just around the corner move on be happy
2007-02-12 21:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by MARTYN H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm at a loss for words. You have been announcing 'Is it incorrect if a married lady maintains loving her 1st love?" If that's your question then my answer is It relies upon on what style of love you have been bearing on. If its a lover kinda love then 'sure' its incorrect.
2016-09-29 01:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she should not make herself miserable just to satisfy someone else . I would say it is time to move on if she is that unhappy.
2007-02-12 23:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Weigh the pros and cons....whichever one comes out higher should be your final answer. Consider financial aspects, companionship, child care...etc.
2007-02-12 21:56:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋