2007-02-12 21:02:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yourself in sexy valentine lingeries!
Trim the "grass" and prepare the ground
and have a wonderfull game on your mound!
All the best!
2007-02-12 21:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really not enough info here from you to give a good suggestion, but, I can give you a general idea.
Let me assume you are young, and, this is your first and hopefully last marriage. Let me also assume you are passionate, vivacious, and deeply love your husband and you are still experiencing the "newness" of your marriage.
The one thing many couples make a mistake of in their marriage is making their wedding day the biggest and most enjoyable day of their marriage. A BIG mistake. The secret is to keep it fresh, new, alive, and many surprises always at hand to keep the love cultivated and healthy.
If you are a sensuous type, and would like to be creative and enjoy and make your (sounds like first) Valentine's Day a memorable one, I would try the following.
Start out with a note on the door for when your husband comes home. Have a direction to go to say the kitchen table where another note is found. To make it simple, (and I've done this before) leave several notes for your husband that has him going to different places in the house and with each one it directs him somewhere else. Maybe a little gift or a chocolate heart or Hershey's kiss would be nice to leave at the notes if not a token gift. Finally at the end of the note trail,........there you are .........looking good.
You give him a big hug and kiss, and either have a nice bottle of chilled Champagne or Wine where you are and tell him you have reservations or want to go out to eat at a nice restaurant.
You've already started off a memorable Valentine's day for the new groom,..........I'm sure after dinner, the night will be complimented with a nice event of passionately exchanged love for one another. The best gift you could give him is "YOU" for Valentine's Day!
2007-02-12 22:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by The Sylvan Wizard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is actually a very tough question not knowing your husband. I would ask you a simple question...in what way does he primarily show you love? The answer to that should give you some clue as to the primary way he receives love.
If he displays his love physically most of the time then I would definitely do some of the things already suggested. If he does projects around the house to show you love then get his vehicle detailed or some such thing. If he tells you over and over he loves you, then get him a card and write ten things you love about him. If he likes to spend lots of time with you to show him love then pamper him when he comes home from work and spend the whole evening with him. If he gives you lots of gifts then spoil him with something he has been wanting.
Hope this helps!
2007-02-12 23:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by infheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that I am a newly wed as well, here is what I am doing with my hubby.....
I have organised a dinner on the beach just b4 the sun goes down.........we r taking a bottle of wine and having dinner on the beach. It is simple, romantic and still meaningful. If you dont live near a beach go to a nice park or somewhere quiet that means something to the both of you.
2007-02-12 21:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by bammbamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hug, a kiss, an "I love you" and save the money. Soon, you'll have kids and a mortgage and need that money a lot more than you need gifts that you could have bought for yourself.
2007-02-12 21:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by penhead72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
newlyweds....1st valentines as married.....
I'd spread rose pedals from the door to the bedroom. line the path with a few small candles and all the lights out. and I would allow him to find you on the bed, nude, with a single red sash around your neck.
sounds cheesy but he'll enjoy it.
2007-02-12 21:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋