she and i are alike in that we think alike. what im feeling uncomfortable is that she gives me all the attention over her husband. her husband(my friend) has got to feel some kind of envy or jealousy. i like her very much as a friend. but i do not want my friend to feel jealousy of me. out of respect to my friend i know i should cut all ties with her....but that would mean i would have to cut all ties with my friend since he is the husband. DOES ANYBODY OUT THERE HAVE A SIMILAR SITUATION?
2007-02-12 21:01:15 · 14 answers · asked by freddieman3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not in your situation. But I like to tell you something.
As far as my knowledge....
If you want to get rid of this situation.... just cut the relationship with your friend(as well as his wife). Ofcourse its bad. But you have to do this because he is your friend. For his sake only you are cutting his friendship. Its not wrong. But dont let him know the reason for your cut off. It makes his married life better.
One more solution as far my knowledge ... it seems somewhat risky. I strongly urge you not to follow this....
Go and sit with your friends wife and tell her clearly, what she is doing is embarrassing and may harm her married life as well as your friendly relation with her husband and explain her husband had noticed her over attention on you. You must be very cool while telling all these to her.
All the best.
2007-02-12 21:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay away from he and not give her so much attention and do not be available for her to do this to you. You do need to cut all ties with her and only be around her IF her husband is in the same room with her. If he leaves the room you leave the room and so on.
2007-02-12 22:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel it in your heart that it's wrong & that you should cut all ties, then go ahead & do just that. That's what you got your guts for, they signal your brain to help tell you when you need to get away from something to prevent problems in your life. Not to be rude or anything, but use common sense, when you know somethings wrong then do something about it. Do the right thing.
2007-02-12 21:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's advancing at you, and you wanna keep your friendship, best way is to tell her that her actions might upset her husband. If she's truly a friend she will follow your advices, or else ignore her at the presense as well as the absense of her husband
2007-02-12 21:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Thilina Guluwita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not attend her and learn to say a stiff no.there is no point finishing ur relationship with her husband for this reason.if u stop taking that xtra attention by ur body language she would stop giving it.take out a suitable time and talk it over with her husband.
2007-02-12 21:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by gary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend if theres any problem in their relationship. He comes first and you have to give him support and advice. You can always hang out with your friend at the bar or golf course or something.
2007-02-13 03:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope but i think u should make more time 2 see ur mate on his own ..... at the end of the day i guess im think u new him b4 her .....so make the most of ur friendship honey..... and just talk 2 as a friend and anore her bad behaviour
2007-02-12 21:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Maria N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consistent with possibility you ought to discover out from her why she's being like this. and enable her understand that its uncomfortable. and enable what ever takes place takes place. with a bit of luck her husband do no longer walk in and she or he the two certainly one of u going at it
2016-12-17 15:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure that you don't put yourself in situations where you are alone or where she can focus on you....if she starts then change the subject leave the room or say something to her.....good luck
2007-02-12 21:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, you should talk to your friend and let him know how you feel... Maybe he is fine with the attention... And maybe he is happy for you and his wife to have sex... Would you like to enjoy her intimately???
2007-02-12 21:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋