Tell me what you think?????

Question

I am 21 and my husband is 37. We have a few things in common. We want the best for the kids, we hate crowded places, we don't drink or smoke, and we are laid back. BUT, my husband has been acting really strange the last 4-6 months. He does not want me on the bank account, he turns his phone off before he gets home, he wakes up in the morning hard, then comes home with no interest in sex at all, and I am 21 and horney as hell. I have a gut feeling something is going on. And if I ask any questions that go anywhere around the subject of cheating. he gets pist and starts a fight. Please let me know what you guys think is going on and what should I do?

Answer 1

Your horny as hell are ya ??

Answer 2

You are young, but it doesn't mean you have to be stupid. Your his wife, so why doesn't he want you to have access to his bank accounts? He must not trust you for some reason. Turning the phone off before he gets home doesn't sound like a big issue, seems like he doesn't want to be bothered by phone calls, could be from work or some friends. If he wakes up in the morning hard, it's called MORNING WOOD. I hear that all men have that sometimes, it shouldn't mean anything, none the less, you think it may have been from a wet dream? If he's got no interest in sex at all, you still shouldn't be assuming anything. He may not even be cheating on you, sometimes men have sex problems if they are not cheating, then something else is up. He's your husband & his duty is to be honest with you at all times. A marriage doesn't work without honesty & communication. You need to fight for these 2 important things you need to clarify your marriage.


GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

Well lets face the facts as you presented them...21 vs 37, bank account, phone turned off, erection but no interest, and your gut feeling...he's playing dear, plain and simple. Confront him once and for all, or take the time to find out where he is going. Somethings up, and you arent reaping the benefits from it. tvtop_toptv

Answer 4

The answer to that question is that he is more than likely cheating on you. I can say that because i done the same thing to my wife and it damn near ended my marriage because of it. It's not easy knowing that the one you love has been seeing another woman. If you want to know for sure if he is cheating hire a P.I. to watch him for a few days and if he is cheating, I'll leave that up to you to decide on. My wife gave me a second chance and we went to a marriage counseling for a few months to work our problems out with each other and we are still together

Answer 5

trust you gut. all classic signs. do you currently have a joint account? do not give it up! if you would like, please e-mail me. [e-mail]. there could be a variety of reasons re: the lack of sexual interest but the phone thing is a real sign. you could always turn it on but you probably need a code to see who has called and who he is calling. lets say he is unfaithful, what will you do? don't forget, you can now sue her too!

Answer 6

You need to confront this immature behavior. If you suspect he is cheating tell him what you think. Its obvious that he is going through his mid life crisis. Don't tolerate this. If you really want to know hire a private investigator then you'll know for sure and where to go form there.

Answer 7

Sounds like he's having an affair - trust your gut girl!! I wouldn't bother asking him - he won't tell you. If it were me I'd act like business as usual - in the meantime I'd either hire a professional or go undercover myself but I'd find out the truth - if I was right I'd kick him out!! You don't deserve to be treated like this!!

Answer 8

always always alwaysalways alalways always alwaysways alwaysalways always alwaysalways alwayalways always always always TRUST YOUR GUT
PS ON THE HORNY PART I WOULD LOVE TO HELP OUT IF I CAN