Cheated husband?

Question

Why is it pk for man to cheat but no woman;and is it hard to forgive a woman???

Answer 1

Can't quite figure out which one cheated??

Answer 2

Simple answer ??????

Generally speaking,, not universal for either gender…. So, don’t “thumbs down” this without reading/understanding what is meant by “generally speaking”.

Men cheat, but they don’t have to have an emotional attachment. Males can very easily “disconnect” sex and love-emotional attachment. Hot looking Unit ?? don’t require love, just LUST n’ ability to disconnect love and attachment.

Women are different after being in a relationship. Love-emotional attachment and sex become intertwined, inseparable. And, Men know this. So if the female partner cheats the male partner is hammered hard emotionally cause they believe (right or wrong) the female partner has found someone better. If the male cheats it’s sex nothing more or less, But women feel emotionally devastated because they don’t see just “sex” they perceive “loss of love, emotional attachment, sex” as all one wrapped up emotion.

Not saying either Male or Female is right,, just perceived differently. And, once again,, just a general observation, does NOT apply to all females and males .

Strongly suggest NEITHER SEX CHEAT !!

Answer 3

Who said it was ok 4 a man??

It's only ok if you let it be ok. I think women are more easily manipulated than men and a woman will most likely take back a cheating man because the guy has done his pathetic sob story and the woman loves him. It's like a motherly instinct for us to see the guy hurting and want to make it better.

of coarse there are exceptions

Answer 4

Any one that cheats, creates bad Karma it damages the soul.
Most people find forgiveness hard full stop.
If they forgive they think they are letting the person off and they must pay for their crimes!
Forgiveness cleans the soul. Give your soul a good clean. We ALL haven't been saints. except maybe Mother Teresa and the Dalai Lama.

Answer 5

why to cheat anybody? cheating is not o.k. for anybody. cheating means playing with emotions of others. The person who has been cheated will definitely feel very bad. forgive others is really very hard but we all should try. but one more thing is that I don't think that cheating is forgivable.

Answer 6

the question is why should you forgive her when you could simply bin the relationship and find a better one. and the same goes for a woman. the only thing making you want to forgive is emotions.there not that hard to overcome. missing your children is hard if there is some involved. but if its not your fault then why should you suffer for it. if it makes the children suffer then its your partner who has done this not the victim

Answer 7

LOOK, cheating is wrong, it doesn't matter if it's the man or the woman, either way, it is INFIDELITY. If your going to cheat on your husband or wife, then you have no business being married to them.

Answer 8

i didnt realize it was okay for either party to cheat...i think its the self worth of the individual on how the handle the situation...i put up with it in my first marriage, i caught my now EX husband cheating on me in our own bed...and that was the final straw...after he was cheating with another girl....i think there comes a time that you have to draw the line somewhere. especially with all the diseases that are out there, you can never be too careful

gl

Answer 9

tell me whats your point
u wanna have equal rights to cheat ur man
or u wanna say that it shud be taken as lightly as if cheated by a man
its a man's world so discremination would always remain there
but make sure for one thing violating committment is definitely no good

Answer 10

id say its NOT ok for anyone to cheat, unless you both decide that you should have an open relationship. if you are having problems like this, then sit down and have and adult conversation about it. come to an understanding or end it.