would it be wrong of me to send my ex an email an tell him how i feel to see if there is any chnce for us before i move on??
i still love him
we have been apart for nearly a year. is it too late???
and should i tell him all my feelings or just come out and ask simply if hed give us another chance???
we have had contact over the year and he has been driving past my house but he said it was coz he was worried bout me....
we were together for 4.5 years he is 30 and i am 23.
2007-02-12 20:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's never too late to re-kindle a broken relationship. I can't really tell you exactly what he would say but I would definitely tell him how I feel. I do not advise you to do it through an email..maybe a hand-written letter would be best if you can't say it face to face.
His behavior seems like he still cares for you and he finds it difficult to completely forget about you.
My advice: I think it would be best if you take advantage of Valentine's Day tomorrow and give him a Valentine's Day card with a letter enclosed so at least you have that as an excuse to give it to him.=) After you've given the letter, WAIT for him to do the next move. If he still has strong feelings for you, I am pretty sure he will do something to let you know. I hope it works.=) Good luck and Happy Valentine's Day in advance.=)
2007-02-12 20:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by R.sakura 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consider the reasons you broke up, and if things are no different now, then it would seem pointless to get back together. Unless you both have grown over the past year and are ready to work on your relationship, it would probably end being the same kind of relationship you had with him before--and that didn't work out!
At 23, you have not had enough experience to know what a good relationship looks like. It would probably help you a lot to get out and date others and see the world. Once you know yourself better and know what you want in life and from a relationship, you might be glad you didn't end up with your ex.
2007-02-12 20:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to know why you guys broke up, although it seems to me that he still cares about you. i think you should tell him how you feel and see what he says, if he is happy to give it another go, i wish you guys all the best but make sure you don't make the same mistakes, if he decides to not give it another chance, move on with your life, you are still young and you will find some one who even might be better. go on and send him that email, because if you don't do it, you will never know if there is hope or not, i don't think you wanna go on with your life not knowing if it could've been but make sure you prepare yourself. i believe if you want something so bad, you should fight for it, if this is what you really want and you know that you will be happy, do it. wish you all the best
2007-02-12 20:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by sxybiitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him, keep your options open. You both may need to figure ou what you really want but it sounds like you both still have very strong feelings for each other, even after the time apart - so obviously there is something there.
Maybe it will work the second time, maybe not, but if you don't try to figure it out, you will always wonder.
2007-02-12 21:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is driving past your house because he feels the same way! Hey, e-mail him....it is worth a try! Definitely think about him driving past your house. That seems a little psycho...He should try leaving a note and waiting for a response. Good Luck!
2007-02-12 20:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by babyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to give it another try then yes tell him how u feel if he drives by ur house to check up on u then he still cares for u to me its hard for a guy to show and express there feeling
2007-02-12 20:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by loca mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT! Are you crazy? you broke up for a reason. Let sleeping dogs lay. Find another guy you can start fresh with and have fun getting to know. Don't think going back will fix your loneliness......
2007-02-12 20:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is something which u really need to decide for yourself. i personally have a rule. if you break up with somebody its for a reason and you can't expect people to change. But at the same time I don't no why you broke up.
2007-02-12 20:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by urmine_nit 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know he is not seeing anyone..just get together and ask him..you have nothing to loose.. apparently if he is checking on you is because he cares... maybe he is unsure as you.
2007-02-12 20:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by pains1956 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm in you giving it one last try before you move on.
2007-02-12 20:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋