I have been living with my boyriend for 2 years and we have a one year old son. but lately I have realized I don't love him "romantically" anymore. I feel really guilty because he is such a great father and he just bought me a new car, but it's just i don't love him no more. I will always love him a as a person but I just feel like I need to move on.... What do I do?
2007-02-12 20:18:13 · 20 answers · asked by sexy1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have got to be honest with him and yourself. Someone if not both of you will end up hurt and resenting eachother. Your son will feel the tention and surely its better for your son to have two happy parents who live apart thantwo who are really unhappy living together ?
2007-02-12 20:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sexy1, You need to have a heart to heart talk with him. Tell him you don't know why you have these feeling and you think it would be best to separate for a while. See if this helps the way you are feeling now.If not it would probably be best to move on. I truely hope things workout.Specially you have a 1 year old son. Good Luck.. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-13 04:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start saving, or get a job, and gradually start planning to make your break. ( It took me about 4 months ) I had to be true to ME, and moved in w/ a friend that my child knew and enjoyed. The ex was devistated however, and became suicidal, and went for therapy, lost like 40 lbs., and I tried not to feel guilty, but if I'd let him know early in the game what my plans were, his bitter resentment would have had time to kick in and he would've been a real jerk during those saving months. Don't let him know--you're protecting the child that way for those times when you're NOT there.
2007-02-13 04:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by jakkibluu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please go and talk with a professional. you do not need to tell him where you are going or why. people do not just wake up one morning and think? hey, i don't want to do this anymore. maybe you are the one that needs to leave. i know this sounds harsh, but.... what makes you think his pain will be less than yours? as you stated. he is a great father. your son will be well provided for. you are the one not happy, why should your son and his dad suffer because you are no longer satisfied? don't be so selfish.
2007-02-13 04:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kim C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell him how you feel and try to work something out so that he still see his son since he is a good father
2007-02-13 04:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly if you have no love left to give him what is there id really do some sole searching before you make a move once you say hey i dont love you no more there isnt no turning backso if you are going to jump make sure theres a pad to land on
2007-02-13 04:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by vamp_19772001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you just said. Do you really feel that way? If its yes, think about your options and your child. The child comes first! Seat down and talk with him.
2007-02-13 04:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Erica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may love him again, babies change relationships and its not an easy time, you should stay with him and ride it out, your son needs a mum and a dad, you will regret leaving him
2007-02-13 05:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jessibel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u dont feel the tremendous feeling/emotion u first felt.. maybe what u feel is the true love that u dont want to lose him.. stay w/ him.. it seems that u wont find any prob regarding his fatherhood..
2007-02-13 04:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by gReEn_p!LLoWs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to work things out first......if things don't change, tell him n' move on......do not cheat yourself n' him......whatever u do, concern about the child....make sure he's well taken care of.....as for the car, u can thank him for his kindness....good luck!!
2007-02-13 04:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋