well...i'm a bisexual and one of my friends is gay...he didnt find me attractive since I was straight but when I turned bi he began to like me more...he likes me and I know it...and I like him too and yet I havent told him yet cause I dont know what it'll be like going into a relationship...with another guy....i've been with girls and yet they treat me like crap...which I hate...but he's...nice to me... even when I was straight he was still nice to me and when we were waiting for the bus he was leaning on me and I didnt push him off or anything...I enjoyed it...but the scariest thing of all is if my parents find out...i'm scared of that mostly...and also...if my ex girlfriend see's me with a guy... >.< can someone tell me what are the +'s and -'s of being with a guy in a relationship?
2007-02-12 20:02:34 · 10 answers · asked by thackpro 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Advantages of gay relationships?
1) The TV is always tuned to ESPN
2) There's always beer in the fridge
3) You never have to talk about 'feelings'
4) Foreplay only takes 5 minutes or less
5) You don't have to 'cuddle' afterwards.
2007-02-13 03:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by radical4capitalism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any relationship is risky. The one benefit of being in a same sex one is that you have a choice as to whether or not you'll have children involved. Won't be any accidental or forced pregnancies for sure! As for your parents, if you are an independent adult and you feel they should know AND can handle their possible rejection then tell them. If you don't want them to know then keep it from them and don't flash it all over the place. I believe that being honest is ALWAYS what's best and in the end if they love you unconditionally it won't matter who you choose to have relations with. It's YOUR life and not theirs.
2007-02-13 04:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no advantages, per se. If you are bisexual (one doesn't "turn" one simply is) then you'll recognise this. We enjoy relationships for the relationship with our partner not specifically because our partner is male or female.
The only disadvantage is others' perception of you, but if you're going to let other people dictate how you live your life - you're hardly going to live.
2007-02-13 04:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's finally feeling free after years of torture and manipulation by the mainstream media.and you find that hey this feels good.
I like it and let's go with it. I think you should be with him or you'll never know how you truely stand in life. if your bi gay straight etc.
Why miss out on this one chance at true freedom.
Double income no kids
2007-02-13 20:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Raver Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are relationships...each one is individual. There is no real difference between a gay and a straight relationship.
2007-02-13 04:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well,about telling ur parents , i dont suggest telling kinda thing to them however, ur sexuality only belongs to you not to any one else .
wish u the best
2007-02-13 05:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by MeGaMoKh™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One gets to harass people with sexual content.
One gets to go into counseling and get people labeled homophobic who do not agree with the behavior.
One gets to imagine that candy bar commercials are out to get them and go after the company with what ever they imagine is happening to them.
2007-02-13 04:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
+
You can wear each others clothes
You can leave the toilet seat up
Guys are hot
-
Fights over chores
Men are bitches
Wandering eyes
2007-02-13 07:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jacob S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not many...except the Yahoo censors are usually on your side.
2007-02-13 06:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
As compared to.................?
2007-02-13 04:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋