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IGNORE.................. THAT IS IT. SHE WANTS ATTENTION & YOU ARE GIVING HER.

PLAIN SIMPLE, DO NOT NOTICE HER...........

2007-02-12 20:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by sarang 3 · 1 1

Well you know that what goes around comes around (sometimes I feel that I am the one who must make it come around) but you could do things like steal all her friends away with kindness and laughter, you could put a piece of paper in her gas tank, throw gum in her hair - start rumors about her, egg her house - the list goes on - but honestly letting it go would be better - because if you don't want to fight her doing vengeful things behind her back will only come back around to you - everything comes out in the wash sooner or later. Maybe you should talk to her - if not think long and hard about your decision....

2007-02-16 15:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by shadows 1 · 0 0

This is going to be an unpopular response (I'm sure I'll get some thumbs down), but I feel compelled to give an answer.

When I was in middle school (about 13) I was being picked on constantly by this huge kid (very tall). It was to the point to where I stopped studying for class because the very thought of school made me cry.

One day I saw him picking on another kid and I joined in (hence, the negative response). It worked. I feel bad about it now, but back then it earned me the respect of this "bully." We became friends and stayed friends for about three years until (in high school) I started hanging out with a better crowd. I guess it's the "common enemy" (or in this case "common victim") strategy.

2007-02-13 06:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bluefast 3 · 0 1

Most people erroneously believe that one needs to get revenge to even the score; but the opposite of love is not hate, (for hate is also an intense emotion) it is apathy; in other words, not caring at all.
The best way to get back at this person is by acting as if she wasn't even there. Completely ignore her and it'll drive her crazy.

2007-02-13 09:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

- Dress like her emphasizing the she is your prototype.
- Whenever she gets really bad, smile and send her a kiss.

Do whatever shows that you admire and love her! People usually become mean because the are satisfied to see us hurt, insulted, angry. If you can control yourself and show not only apathy but... satisfaction, she will feel ridiculed and lose her weapons.

I have done that in a similar case and it really worked!! She felt helpless!!

2007-02-13 04:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 1 0

simplest and best possible answer.

FORGIVENESS IS THE BEST WAY TO GET EVEN

just forgive her, it's the best revenge you can take, cause there's nothing she can do about it. That's getting even!

In fact, this has made me some of my closest friends. By truly forgiving them, and showing them love, they may get meaner, but there's a good chance that they'll gain respect for you. I'm really glad I did it, because my other option (and the one I thought I wanted the most) was to fight them, or humiliate them somehow. Forgiveness is the longest lasting, and best way to keep yourself out of trouble and have inner peace.

2007-02-13 04:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by What it is... 2 · 1 1

IGNORE HER, this will hurt her even more than knocking the you know what out of her, like you want to do.

2007-02-15 04:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0 0

Sometimes that's only the best way because emotional and mental hurt are far harder to get over, if they are severe enough.

2007-02-13 07:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by Gen 4 · 0 1

Well the best way is to annex(capture) her friends love and trust. That would severly put her into a deep depression and thoughts of suicide.

2007-02-13 04:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Either ignore her or do something really nice for her.

The latter action works better.

2007-02-13 04:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it is more worst other wise than physically Don't be revengeful, forgive and do good continually

2007-02-13 07:58:36 · answer #11 · answered by godman b 2 · 0 0

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