Hey everyone, My name is Brad, and I desperately need some help. About a year ago, I got a new job, I became a big brother for Big brother big sister, I met a wonderful girl, was close to God, and now I'm a trainwreck.
Haven't even spoken to God in 1/2 a year, just realized I treat my girlfriend badly, and take advantage of her loving me. I still have a job, but am lazy and some days don't want to go in, and the worst of all, after having great times with Dominic (my little buddy) , I just stopped calling him. I either worked, or didn't feel like having him on "my shoulders" that day, and haven't called or talked to him in 3 months.
I realize how selfish this is, and know i could be in a lot worst situation, but I just don't take the initiative on anything. I'm not man enough to call him back, don't know what to say, and know they would be upset.I just don't want to deal with all that, but at the same time, I realize I need to stop being irresponsible. Help please
2007-02-12 19:08:47 · 2 answers · asked by Brad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
so get back into work mode. do what ever it take to motivate yourself. start back to church on sunday and take your girlfriend with you. show her some special attention, make her feel loved. call your little buddy take him out. tell him you were having a hard time in your life and that you are sorry, make it up to him. get off your couch i know they are nice believe i am there once a week. limit yourself to being home and doing nothing and get out more. once you start things will fall back into place.
2007-02-12 19:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea 14369 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what you have to do. You have identified the problem and now you just need to take action.
Pick up the phone and call Dominic. I am sure he will be happy to hear from you...his friend.
You just need to "undo" a few things and make amends with others...and yourself.
Stay Strong, Brad.
2007-02-13 03:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋