what do i do?
2007-02-12 18:51:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Tell him you love him,but not like that,he will understand and still be your friend if he really is your friend.Peace!!
2007-02-12 18:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you dont know for sure if he is gay, wait around and find out before you assume. Many times people judge someone and honestly it may not be the case. Should your friend really be gay talk to him and tell him that you simply arent. Let him deal with his feelings, should he pursue again, maybe think about keeping the friendship at a distance
2007-02-13 02:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by punk.baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think first if hes a gay, because youre not yet sure. But if you find it true, say to him that youre only friends thats it!
2007-02-13 02:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. If he's a real friend, he'll respect your feelings and keep any romantic feelings he has for you in check. If he feels that he cannot keep his romantic feelings in check, then although you can stay friends, you will not hang out together as much, and probably only with groups of friends until such time as he has a boyfriend.
2007-02-13 02:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by lesroys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off would you care if your friend was gay?
You could ask him, and tell him that yoo just wanted to know, because friends should know those kind of things.
2007-02-13 02:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by odd_person 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him tell you in his own time and make sure that if you wanna be his friend to be supportive but let him know if you do not feel the same way.
2007-02-13 03:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the hardest problems with friends can work out if you're both honest with each other.
Ask your friend if he believe's he's gay.
If he is, give him room to tell you.
If he is, you can tell him it won't make a difference to your friendship.
If he isn't, that's something else to talk about.
Don't be afraid to talk to each other.
You can show him this answer and ask him how he feels.
2007-02-13 03:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Palmerpath 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be clear about your expectations. But don't make an assumption either, assuming someone has an affection for you when they don't could irritate them a little...
Communication is always the best thing to do.
2007-02-13 03:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend. If he comes on to you, establish a boundary to let him know you're not gay, but still want to be his friend.
2007-02-13 02:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are 100% sure he likes you, do nothing. He is your friend. If he does like you, tell him that you are just friends. You like him as a friend, but not as romantic thing
2007-02-13 10:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋