I met 3-4 women in my office and neighbourhood in the last 3 years who seem happily married and when I got to know them as friends have expressed their desire for me. I'm just an above average looking guy...maybe good to some. they are ready to go all the way even in their homes. is it because of their inferiority complex or something else?
2007-02-12 17:47:48 · 16 answers · asked by NicZee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I work for an IT firm where we do have our fun
2007-02-12 17:52:23 · update #1
I'm not saying I'm great looking... and that the reason I ask this question
2007-02-12 23:13:54 · update #2
When a woman is really and truly happily married, then they won't cheat. It's not in a woman's nature to cheat. We are nurtures and life givers. Now you do have some woman that are addicted to sex and the thrill of getting caught. That might explain why the women want to go back to their homes with you. It's sad to say, but this is a time where morals and respect have been trampled on and then they have the nerve to call themselves professional women. They want to give the persona as if they are happily married and it might not be any of their husbands fault. Some women have a group of them, that get together for this one reason( to have sex with strange men) and go home to their family as if they are as normal as they come. Don't allow yourself to be passed around like a dirty dish rag. Don't keep being curious as to why they behave the way they do, because soon, you will be caught up in their game. It's great to enjoy sex, but if you have a spouse and they don't satisfy you, then it's your job to teach them what you want.
2007-02-12 18:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question lies within your own statement. Wow that sounded philosophicl (Lol) sorry. It's exactly what you said they seem happily married. Just being attentive and a friend that listens to women will win you more affection than you could ever imagine. Men cheat because we are animals and for no other reason then the desires of the flesh. Woman on the other hand when cheating is because there is some emotional void in their life. If we as men would listen sometime we would learn to hear exactly what our ladies are asking for hidden somewhere in the middle of all those confusing actions of hers. Women want to be loved, adored and attended to. Taking the time to listen to a woman and show true concern for what she is saying can mke you the most attractive man alive in certain situations. Then again all things don't apply to all people some of them might just be desperate house wives. Good Luck!
2007-02-12 18:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Furious_Maximus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe that a truly happily married woman cheats. They may look happy on the outside, but sometimes that's just a big show.
I was married to the biggest cheater in the world. However, people who didn't know us well thought that we were the happiest couple in the world. It was all for looks.
I have now been married for four years to a man that I trust and believe in. I've had plenty of chances to cheat and it has never crossed my mind. I am happily married.
Just because someone appears to be happily married, it doesn't necessarily mean that they really are.
2007-02-12 18:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Karen H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are wanting you they are not happily married. They may want to stay with their spouses but that doesn't mean they are happy with them. They could just be comfortable with them for whatever reason but something is certainly lacking in these marriages. And you should use your "above average" looks to find something better than married women with loose morals. Find someone classy with values, or are you no better than those married women? You don't love them do you?
2007-02-12 17:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not married.. BUT i am a woman, and i will tell you exactly why they cheat. women are always searching to upgrade....no matter how happy a man may think his marriage is, his wife is constantly searching for that "upgrade". take this example for instance..... when you buy a nice car.... say it's an escalade... and you drive it for about a month or two, you start to see range rovers zooming by that big *** escalade, and your saying to yourself..."damn, i should have picked that". then you drive by a dealership that is selling range rovers, and it's $0 down, low interest rates.. and low monthly payments.
now..... what are you going to do??? keep the big escalade??? or go trade it in and get the car of your dreams? you be the judge.
2007-02-12 18:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by apple martini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happily married men are unfaithful, too. Happily married does not mean sexually satisfied.
2007-02-12 18:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They find that you listen to them and desire the attention that you give. Because they aren't getting the attention at home for some reason.
2007-02-12 18:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They aren't a happily married
2007-02-12 17:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because women are "hapily married" does not mean they are not alway searching for "better", men just tend to settle easier and be happy with what they have.
2007-02-12 17:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by shadycaliber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason married men do it. To boost their egos and not stopping to think how they damage their spouses.
2007-02-13 02:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by jjeano661 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋