2007-02-12 17:29:09 · 19 answers · asked by Suzie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WELL I love two people right now.
one my wife the other my son
and if you count myself then 3 people at once.
2007-02-12 17:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately Yes i think you can be in love with 2 people at the same time. Its not only unfair on you but the other 2 people involved. But remember its not your fault either, the heart loves who the heart loves and theres nothing you can do about it. I think you just need to sit down and work out the pros and cons of each person and then decided even though it might be painful to who you are best suited to. Dont string both along at the same time becasue in the end u will be the one hurt, not everyone can wait around for ever.
Good Luck!
2007-02-13 01:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by channy_simon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOO!!! That's my answer. It is NOT possible to be in love with two people at the same time. No one knows the meaning of love nowadays.. everyone just throws the word around like it's nothing. For me, love is about passion, about lust, about caring, about honestly, about friendship... it's more than "i like him and i like him too" I've figured this out the hard way. I thought I had loved two people at the same time but I realized I only loved how comfortable I was with one guy and really had feelings for the guy.. and when I gave my new relationship a chance I eventually became closer than I was with my ex. plus, when you really think about what love is and forget who you may possibly be in love with.. you'll realize who it is that you actually love. It was one of the most difficult times of my life and I know what you're going through.. just give yourself some time to think about it. Most importantly, don't let your friends, family or anyone else influence your final decision because ultimately, it's your life and it's up to you. Good Luck!! Peace!
2007-02-13 02:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At a certain point in life, many of us find ourselves in the difficult situation of loving two people and feeling the need to choose one over the other. The situation can be torture, and anyone can feel torn apart. I don't mean to take anything away from your feelings, but your language hints at a solution. You sound as though you're standing back and judging these people. I suspect that if you let yourself get closer to each of them, the choice would be made for you. As a therapist, I listen closely to the words people use. When you use the word "picking," my ears prick up. The way I imagine a deep soul connection, love picks you and your partner. The "soul" part of soul mate is the depth of the connection. It goes beyond reason and control and seems to be ordained by fate. Maybe you need to take more time to be involved with these people and let a decision emerge. If you really are soul mates, you should be able to talk with enough honesty and depth to know what to do. If you yourself acted like a soul mate, you would describe the situation as two people together making a decision, not one sizing up the other. You have to ease up on your desire to know everything and to be in control-so you'll see the signs of real love. When you make the shift from being fully in charge to letting life happen, you'll discover how to be-and have-a soul mate.
2007-02-13 09:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
While you can love 2 there is only 1 that is the right one. You need to look at how you feel around both of them and choose one properly because if you lose two loves at once it hurts twice as much
2007-02-13 01:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by sumthing_to_say_12 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Its not possible... Its called two timing.
Love can't happen with two people at same time. ONE is LOVE and other is just INFATUATION. You ar ejsut attracted to the other may be because of looks or mannerism.
Find out which one is true... and BE HAPPY!!!!!
2007-02-13 04:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can love so many people at the same time. We love our family members, friends and relatives.
But if you are talking about life partner( or bf) ...
It is not possible... it seems like love to you.
But its just a crush or lust.... not love on both I am sure.
2007-02-13 02:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Nenet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love lots of people such as my family close friends & kids.
To love to men is possible but it ain't right.
You must check if it really is love or infatuation & sort it out very quick unless you want to get hurt cos loving 2 men won't work
2007-02-13 03:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's more a case of confusion you love one and lust the other and then everything gets muddled up take the time to sit back and really think xx
2007-02-13 02:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by t bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible but you need to choose one so the other wont get hurt cause you gey marry two men thats the law!
2007-02-13 01:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by Lexy320 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋